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Membership Drive , Co-Ordinator,, Russell's Antin
It doesn't help to rely on evidence, because the evidence itself is subject to the same judgements and beliefs as anything else. I sincerely doubt that a Christian apologist couldn't come up with evidences they find convincing.
But returning to the matter of "choosing to believe" - I should like to offer a method and see if you agree.
Suppose we agree that under some set of circumstances it is very likely a person would come to believe in Jesus as the Son of God. Now, whatever those circumstances might be, we can pin them down, process-wise into a sort of recipe. (I have one in mind, but I'll forgo it for now.)
If you (or I) were aware that some process like that existed - even if we don't know the particulars - we might consider undergoing it. When we do so, we can make a choice: either submit to this process or avoid it. In that sense at least, by choosing to participate or not, we can choose to believe.
You appear to have missed this bit:
I am not a psychologist (although I have played with one behind the TV, in my time), but some people do, in fact, develop imaginary friends that are not there.
If someone were to claim that it had been "revealed" to them that the sky was, in fact, green, I would still maintain, given the evidence, that the sky was blue.
I reject the "If only you believed as I do, you would come to see why you should believe as I do" gambit.
If there were, in fact, some almighty creative 'god' that did, in fact, specifically create me, and did, in fact, know me in my mother's womb; it would, in fact, know what kind of evidence would cause me to believe in it. The fact that such evidence has not been forthcoming in more than a half-century of indoctrination and searching indicates one of two things: either such a being does not exist, or, such a being exists and is intentionally withholding the evidence it created me to need. Such a being would be, by any definition of the word, an immoral monster.
Despite any sophistry, the lack of belief in something for which there is no evidence is not the choice not to believe.