As someone who followed the original discussion with a mixture of exasperation and amusement, I will say only this:
No one disagrees that finding out why the universal constants have the values they do is a bad idea, or that changing the values might render the universe inimitable to life as we know it. The entire issue you had there - and which I suspect will repeat itself in this thread, though I haven't read all the posts to be sure - is a matter of phrasing and tone.
"Fine-tuning" is generally accepted to refer to the creationist argument that the seemingly narrow values which might result in something we recognize as life indicate the presence of a fine-tuner. This is not necessarily the case when discussing alternatives such as the multiverse theory, or even the simple possibility that the values couldn't have been anything else - we don't know anything about the mechanics that formed the universe, after all (or, at least, very little) - but on this forum, "fine-tuning" is generally read to mean "THIS IS AN ARGUMENT FOR CREATIONISM".
Couple this with a generally confrontational, dismissive, and mocking attitude on both sides, and you get the original train-wreck of a thread.
So. Finding out why the universal constants exist within such a narrow range? Great. Leaping from there to the idea that the universe was actively fine-tuned? Not so much.