I skipped from page 3 to this page, and it's literally the exact same argument being repeated. Self vs. SELF, blah blah blah. This dude will never listen, he's all about adventurous semantic games and brain acrobatics that allow woo to prevail in the face of what should be insurmountable floods of evidence to the contrary. And this is the SECOND part of the thread!
I'm pretty sure I've reasoned with bricks who managed to budge a little further than anything in this thread is doing or going to do. It's unbelievable. Jabba, why do you cling to this? What difference does it really make? This "debate"

rolleyes

is actually making negative progress, somehow.
Who cares about selves and SELVES and what-all? Seriously? We all still have to get up every day and work to put food on our tables and interact with our families and people around us, both the difficult ones and the kindred ones. None of this baloney matters even the slightest in such real, daily-grind contexts.
Is that why arguing endlessly and nonsensically about it is so important to you? Does the daily grind seem too dull, too samey, just not enough somehow? If that's the case, seek to improve it. In the real world, not in floppy philosophical woo-land, which ultimately makes no real difference and is a tremendous waste of time. Learn a new trade, take up a hobby. A
real hobby, like bird-watching or tennis.
Or, if you find the siren's song of the introspective stuff simply too compelling to ignore, at least filter it into a more grounded-in-the-real-world medium, like poetry or songwriting. But for pity's sake, let this boring, cyclical parley GO.