if the object (or astronaut) is attached to the wall
Exactly. If it is not attached to the wall then it experiences no force. Therefore, there are huge differences between gravity and a rotating object.
It won't be exact. If he drops an object from his hand, it will fall to the ground a bit quicker than what he would expect under a normal gravitational field. It will also not fall straight down. However, the differences between a normal gravitational field and what the astronaut experiences get smaller and smaller as the radius of the torus increases.
Exactly. Things will fall differently and move differently. Since realistic spacecraft are not going to be that big, there will be very big differences. So there are big differences between "artificial graivty" and normal gravity and big differences between microgravity and normal gravity. Given that one of these requires no effort whatsoever and one needs huge amounts of technology, which one is more useful?
The only vaguely sensible argument is the one on bone mass. However, as far as I am aware, the actual cause of these problems is not actually known, although the lack of gravity meaning bones are not needed is a good hypothesis. However, it would be madness to actually design hugely complex spacecraft without even knowing if they will solve the only problem that they might actually solve.
