But their merging to form the correct elements would release enough energy to blast everything apart,
But that doesn't mean that it
would "blast everything apart. Only if that energy were released approximately equally in all directions. Instead, the process could:
a) take place over longer time scales, allowing the energy to dissipate less violently.
b) just happen to have the energy released in such a manner as it didn't happen to interact with the other particles involved. While this is again
incredibly unlikely, it's just one of the massive number of possible ways for the energy to be released.
making it impossible to form a human body. What you'd need is the right elements, in the right proportions, in the right temperature, in the right pressure, in the right quantities, with the right level of agitation, ect, in order for it to be physically possible for it to even be theoretically possible for this to happen.
I dispute that you need all those things. All those things simply make the incredibly unlikely event less unlikely, but aren't necessary.
If thermodynamics were working backwards, then time would be effectively going backwards, so it wouldn't really count as extending his life.
Except you only need thermodynamics to just happen to be "working backward"
some of the time for
some particular processes. Everything else can go ahead as normal.
The classic example is a cup falling off a table and breaking. We don't see the reverse: a broken cup forming and flying back to land on a table. But it
is physically possible. Just so unlikely that on time scales like the age of the universe and with a sample size on the scale of the hubble volume, it's very very unlikely to happen.
But if it
did happen that wouldn't mean that everything else would go in reverse: it would just mean that a very unlikely event occured. The rest of the universe would still be overwhelmingly likely to continue as it does. Similarly if such unlikely events occurred in your body there's no reason to expect everything else to follow a similar pattern: that would be even
less likely.