This is predicatable. Sad, but predictable. I actually wanted to put this in a Letter to the Editor before the election:
I no longer care how reasonable, prudent, or even intelligent a GOP economic platform sounds (though this campaign's budget "plan" is completely vague). I learned from the Republican Revolution, where they ran on economics--and once in office, immediately turned to their narrow, Christian, social agenda. Fool me once, shame on them; but it will NOT be shame on me for believing there is any intent to focus on economic issues.
Until and unless the Republican Party stops bowing to the Religious Right, they will not get votes from middle America. We, the people, aren't that stupid. The RR seems to not understand that one can personally disagree with a behavior, but still think that it is inappropriate and/or unconstitutional for the government to outlaw it.
My dream Third Party is one that supports smaller government by respecting ALL the rights of the citizens--property rights AND civil rights--and recognizes that we, as a society, have long ago decided that a certain amount of redistribution is in all of our interests. Once you admit that that's going to happen, you can focus on having the process be as fair and inexpensive as possible.
I don't love a lot of the Democratic Party approach: They are too willing to say, "This would be a good thing" and spend other people's money doing it, instead of actually looking at what the cost/benefit analysis is. Yes, having every child learn to play an instrument would be a "good thing" but that doesn't make it something the government should, or even can, do. Throwing millions of dollars at such a program that are needed to ensure that people have access to emergency services, to vaccines, to the court system, to education that will let them be self-supporting...is just plain stupid.
As P J O'Rourke so amusingly put it, tax-supported programs need to pass the "gray-haired granny test": Would you put a grandma in jail for not paying taxes to support this program? If not, then it should not be paid for with tax dollars. Courts, national defense, reasonable environmental protections, public health issues, infrastructure maintenance, preserving some of our wild lands and wildlife for future generations...I can get behind all of that. Once you make the governement the payer of last resort for emergency health care, then funding a certain level of preventative (and chronic health condition) care is cost-effective. But I don't think it's appropriate for the government to be funding Viagra or a boob job!
I don't think it's the government's business whom I sleep with, what I consume in my own home (or a friend's home) for entertainment, or what books I want to read or write. I *DO* think it's a public safety issue if I'm driving while impaired, or if I own a weapon that can knock my neighbor's house down; or own a deadly weapon without insurance for mishaps. (I just don't get it: If you own a car, you have to have liability insurance in case you accidently harm someone with it. Why can't we treat firearms the same way?)
I also think any sane human will look at the US Tax Code and say: Simplify and enforce. That the budget needs to include both reducing spending (including entitlements) and raising at least some revenues. Most importantly, I think that conducting the People's Business is way, way, more important than scoring cheap partisan points by blocking needful legislation, or passing meaningless bills.
So what party am I? I don't know; I just vote for whomever seems to me to be the least likely to make my life worse. At the moment, that's usually the Democrats. (Though Washington State Republicans tend to be much more liberal than those in most of the country; similarly, I would expect that an Alabama Democrat would be pretty conservative by our standards out here.)
I do think that we will see a movement to third parties on at least a state level fairly soon. The online world has made the media advantage of the main two parties much smaller. The Dems will soon have a Green party split off, I think; and the GOP will possibly have two, one for the Libertarian types and one for the Fundies.
Only time will tell; but meanwhile, to return to the OP topic: This is exactly backwards. Romney lost because he had to come on so extreme to win the primary, and then couldn't tack back to center without looking like he didn't know WHAT he believed. As in the last election, I think the choice of running mate basically gave the election away: It was a clear announcement, "I'm either from the Religious Right, or up to my backside in debt to them. I'm willing to put this zealot a heartbeat away from the Presidency so I can buy some votes."
FWIW, I think Obama did a better job with a very bad hand dealt him for his first term than he is often given credit for; but understanding that is perhaps a bit nuanced for a campaign slogan. ("He kept us from being really, really screwed" isn't much for posters.) But even if I had thought he hadn't, he really was the only option for this election.
Just my thoughts, MK