belinda
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Thanks for the question!
I have always considered myself not to be racist, but a conversation with my partner made me re-think it. I've been considering posting this story/questino, but did not want to get flamed. So please be gentle.....
I was discussing with my partner about attraction - particularly to people with different racial extraction. He's says he finds most asian girls attractive, but not so with african girls. Whereas I am the opposite, I find most guys of african extraction attractive, but am attacted to very few asian blokes. Remember I am only talking pure physical attraction, not anything else. Anyway, we discussed it, and tried to figure it out and eventually came up with a kind of scale.
Very generally.....those of african descent tend towards more muscular/stronger/masculine features (remember we are being VERY GENERAL here - not saying each individual follows this); those of european descent somewhere in the middle; and those of asian descent more angular, slender, feminine features.
So our theory was we are not so much reacting to the persons alleged race, but to thier physical features that are a result of their genes.
This was just what we came up with...it would be interesting to do a study on it...I would like other's input - does it sound like a "racist" idea? If I haven't expressed myself well enough I'm sorry...and thanks!
I have always considered myself not to be racist, but a conversation with my partner made me re-think it. I've been considering posting this story/questino, but did not want to get flamed. So please be gentle.....
I was discussing with my partner about attraction - particularly to people with different racial extraction. He's says he finds most asian girls attractive, but not so with african girls. Whereas I am the opposite, I find most guys of african extraction attractive, but am attacted to very few asian blokes. Remember I am only talking pure physical attraction, not anything else. Anyway, we discussed it, and tried to figure it out and eventually came up with a kind of scale.
Very generally.....those of african descent tend towards more muscular/stronger/masculine features (remember we are being VERY GENERAL here - not saying each individual follows this); those of european descent somewhere in the middle; and those of asian descent more angular, slender, feminine features.
So our theory was we are not so much reacting to the persons alleged race, but to thier physical features that are a result of their genes.
This was just what we came up with...it would be interesting to do a study on it...I would like other's input - does it sound like a "racist" idea? If I haven't expressed myself well enough I'm sorry...and thanks!