It applies to everyday life in the following way: you don't have to believe in anything which has not been demonstrated. You do not have to disprove anything in order to not believe in a claim.
"Talking of some idea" is unclear. I can talk about dragons, the burden of proof only applies if I were to make a claim about dragons. For instance, if I said that dragons actually exist but only in France it applies as such: I have to prove that France has dragons. You don't have to prove that France has no dragons.
It's only when someone makes a factual claim that the burden of proof is relevant.
It "helps" before he sets foot in the door. It sets the standard for what the PH needs to do in order for the ordinary person to believe his claims. If the PH doesn't provide sufficient positive evidence that he can do what he says he can do then you are under no compulsion to believe a word of it.
If the PH says "Can you prove that I'm NOT a psychic healer?" the ordinary person can say "No, but that's irrelevant and I still reject your claim".
I might not be able to test an unwilling PH's claims. He might not be willing to provide the evidence required for me to believe him. If he doesn't, and I can't test it, then it ends with me not believing him.
I can't make a baseball bat out of burden of proof and beat him until he gives in. All I can do is say "I don't have any reason to believe you.".
No, this is a misunderstanding.
I might want to debunk a psychic for the fun of it, or because of scientific inquiry, but all the burden of proof says is: I don't have to believe anything if the person making the claim hasn't provided positive proof.
The best way to think about how "burden of proof" gets used in reality is to think of criminal trials. We place the burden on the side accusing a suspect of a crime - the accuser has to prove that the crime took place and that the given individual is responsible.
The defendant does not have to prove that he didn't do it. And the jury don't rule that he definitely didn't do it. "Not guilty" is the default assumption.
All I'm doing is saying the Psychic Healer is "not guilty" of doing what he claims.
That criminal trial analogy is excellent. It does let us look at all aspects of the issue in a focused manner.
You’re right, the defendant does not have to prove he didn’t do it. Classic example of burden of proof.
Nevertheless, say you yourself are interested in a particular case, what then?
Okay, let us take an example. Let’s look at the hypothetical case of PK Thomson, a famous Olympic swimmer, who stands accused of killing his girlfriend and a male friend of this girlfriend. Sure, you’re right, the onus of proof is not on showing that he’s innocent, the onus of proof is in showing that he is guilty. Innocent until proven guilty. (The exact equivalent of “PH claims are hokum until proven valid”.)
Now take you, the ordinary man on the street. Say you happen to be interested in this case. Why exactly are you interested? Could be any number of reasons, like (a) simple curiosity, you read crime fiction and fancy yourself an armchair sleuth ; or (b) you’re the girlfriend’s friend yourself, and want to see PK punished ; or (c) you’re the girlfriend’s friend, and do want the killer punished, but personally think it unlikely that PK did it ; or (d) you’re PK’s friend, and don’t think he did it, and want to get him acquitted if he is indeed innocent ; or (e) you’re a reporter for a tabloid and have been assigned the case, and have your own theory about what happened, or (f) any other plausible or not-so-plausible reason you can think of why an ordinary person might be interested in the case.
Sure, the law will take its course. Sure, that official course will see the onus of proof rest on the prosecution. Nevertheless, if you personally are *interested* for any reason at all, then won’t you need to find out ways to sift both sides of the case and arrive at a conclusion for yourself? Which is another way of saying : you are taking on the burden of proof on yourself ! (Just for yourself, just for this single individual person who is interested in the case ; and that conclusion could be any of three alternatives : “guilty”, or “not guilty”, or “don’t know”). You very interest will make you want to arrive at your own conclusion, by yourself.
In the opposite scenario, say you are an ordinary person with no interest in the case. Let’s say there is overwhelming evidence that the PK is guilty. Nevertheless you may choose not to look at that evidence, not to look at the case at all, to ignore the screaming tabloid headlines and television newscasters, and hold a “don’t know and don’t care” attitude as regards PK’s guilt. That is by no means an illogical or irrational thing to do, right?
So ultimately, then, for you, the ordinary person, the onus of proof as regards the hypothetical PK Thomson’s guilt would seem to rest squarely on your level of interest.
Now in many cases that interest is casual, and when you’re asked “So, do you think PK really did it?”, your reply is the eminently rational “Oh, not proved in court thus far, so as far as I’m concerned he’s innocent”, or the equally rational “Oh, the lower court’s found him guilty, so until such time as the higher court does not say otherwise, my personal belief is that he’s guilty”. Sure, that’s rational. (And that is exactly equivalent to saying : Yes, the burden of proof rests with PH, and PH hasn’t proved/validated his case to my satisfaction, so as far as I’m concerned he’s a weirdo or a charlatan, and I’m not interested, and I’m walking away from here.) This, I suppose, is exactly what you mean when you say :
It "helps" before he sets foot in the door. It sets the standard for what the PH needs to do in order for the ordinary person to believe his claims.
Sure, that’s reasonable, and I agree with that POV : but surely (as I’ve tried to show) that is not necessarily the only possible rational reaction?
If your level of interest is higher than that casual-and-strictly-rational level (for any of the reasons I mentioned, or any other reason that you can think of), then doesn’t that bring the onus of proof back to you personally (in practice, although still not in theory)?
That’s what I meant, that perhaps the onus of proof lies, in practice, with the person who’s interested in the issue being discussed. That the burden of proof vests (in practice) with the person interested enough in some issue. Be it some court case (sensational or otherwise), be it some (psycho?) psychic’s claims, or be it the big daddy claim of god/religion/all that.
Qualification : I’m simply thinking aloud. This is by no means an article of faith with me! Just a casual thought that came up when I read that comment I initially quoted. I could be wrong, indeed since I seem to taking an apparently unusual position I recognize that chances are I actually am wrong, nevertheless I don’t quite see my error in thinking (if at all my thinking is erroneous) from where I stand.