Hehe according to the shady shadow man I've gotten the above totally wrong 
Here is his version of events:
Between you and me - he is most likely correct
Oh and BillyJoe thank you for your succinct and easy to understand explanation - I appreciate it - plus the correction on XXY men
Plus thanks everyone else - there's some interesting stuff here

Sou
Here is his version of events:
Well... one of us has a poor memory then Because I remember it being when they were Iceman's house with his parents. The mom said something like "This is all my fault" (as if there is something wrong with having a mutant son :rolleyes and then Pyro (sp? the 'bad' mutant who could control fire and ends up going with Magneto) says "Actually they found it's the father who is responsible for passing it on" (or something to that effect) "so it's his fault" and points to Iceman's dad.
Or at least that's how I remember it
Between you and me - he is most likely correct
Oh and BillyJoe thank you for your succinct and easy to understand explanation - I appreciate it - plus the correction on XXY men
Plus thanks everyone else - there's some interesting stuff here
Sou