Because the 2 that actually end up decaying did so because of some force, they did not "just happen" for no reason. So there was one outcome that was "determined" by some force and the universe is deterministic not non-deterministic. That is if you assume that everything is caused by some force/reason etc..
No---as far as we understand quantum mechanics, it does indeed just happen. Quantum particles are precisely identical---if you have two neutrons, for example, there is quite literally nothing which determines which one will decay first; the decays happen at random. As far as we know, this is not like (say) a bingo drawing---i.e. it's not "since I couldn't keep track of all the balls, I couldn't make a prediction"---but rather is true randomness.