The understating of the fluidity of sexual orientation

[Mark6]

Nong Poy is amazing, probably the first transgender person who I would really consider to be pretty. I would be attracted to her right up to the point that I found out she was really a man, just can't change those pesky chromosomes I'm afraid.

Somehow, this apprently common attitude is bizarre to me. Nong Poy looks like a beautiful woman. She has all woman parts AFAIK, at least on the outside. Admittedly she is not my type, but if a transgender woman who IS my type offered me a lay, I would have no problem accepting[1]. Unexpectedly seeing a penis would be a turn-off, but mere knowledge that there used to be a penis is not. At all.

If it walks like a duck, swims like a duck and quacks like a duck...

[1] At least no more problem than with any other woman -- me being married, and all

 

[Trakar]

Interesting perspective. I don't find them remotely adolescent in appearance. I've never been sexually attracted to children. For all of my flaws, thankfully that is not one of them.

ETA: I'm NOT saying that you think someone attracted to them would be attracted to children... I think, right? I'm confused.

LOL! yes,...er, no! I'm not saying that.

There is a difference between being attracted to youthful appearances and pederasty. I'm not saying that these look like children, merely that (to me) they have the appearance of extremely young individuals (mid-teens to early twenties) still apparently in the early stages of blossoming sexuality, either or both would be carded for trying to buy cigarettes, yet alone alcohol. That is way too young appearing for my tastes (and was even when I was that age).

 

[RandFan]

LOL! yes,...er, no! I'm not saying that.

There is a difference between being attracted to youthful appearances and pederasty. I'm not saying that these look like children, merely that (to me) they have the appearance of extremely young individuals (mid-teens to early twenties) still apparently in the early stages of blossoming sexuality, either or both would be carded for trying to buy cigarettes, yet alone alcohol. That is way too young appearing for my tastes (and was even when I was that age).

 

[Marcus]

Somehow, this apprently common attitude is bizarre to me. Nong Poy looks like a beautiful woman. She has all woman parts AFAIK, at least on the outside. Admittedly she is not my type, but if a transgender woman who IS my type offered me a lay, I would have no problem accepting[1]. Unexpectedly seeing a penis would be a turn-off, but mere knowledge that there used to be a penis is not. At all.

If it walks like a duck, swims like a duck and quacks like a duck...

[1] At least no more problem than with any other woman -- me being married, and all

I can't explain it, other than to say that sex really is all in the head. I would be perfectly happy to have sex with Nong Poy, as long as I never discovered that she was a man. Is the surgery so advanced that this is possible? I have no idea.

 

[Dessi]

I can't explain it, other than to say that sex really is all in the head. I would be perfectly happy to have sex with Nong Poy, as long as I never discovered that she was a man. Is the surgery so advanced that this is possible? I have no idea.

Short answer: yes.

Long answer: present day surgerical results can give women aesthetic, remarkably normal looking genitals, so much that a gynecologist wouldn't even notice anything usual. Transmen, on the other hand, typically don't have the same stellar results, most choose to be non-op.