I just wonder what the tune would be of some of the critics when they are the ones suffering life shattering chronic pain.
As it is, it's hard to take seriously people that claim to have solved chronic pain issues though exercise, weight loss, good diet, vitamins, surgical intervention, hypnosis, message, chiropractic adjustment, meditation, marijuana, yoga, eliminating toxins, a good enema, Reiki, aromatherapy, faith in Jesus, Amway, or whatever their magic bullet is [Including cooking with the Magic Bullet].
Asking "How do other countries do it?" does little good until you answer the question.
It's pretty much a character flaw to treat chronic pain with narcotics. Do people really think chronic pain sufferers have not researched the possibilities?
Yes, I'm frustrated and honestly afraid.
I just needed to let you know: some of us here get it! Following this thread has repeatedly made me quite upset as some with little or no experience with truly intense chronic pain blithely make uninformed, pronouncements. "Oh, I had oral surgery once and I found that alternating Tylenol and Ibuprofen worked fine- why would anyone need opioids?" "My back pain was really bad until I changed my mattress and chair and it went away" "I had bad headaches and I simply thought them away- like Mr. Spock would have." "Clearly opioids are being over-prescribed, everyone tells me, so the idea of the State government cutting your spouse's dose by half is only reasonable." "What's the problem- the doctor only has to run a quick simple form past a pain management team and your spouse's problem will be fixed."
I am unbelievably lucky- I have never had the kind of intense, unrelenting pain that your spouse has. I've seen the edges of it: I've had oral surgery with pain intense enough for a day that I could not sleep or even think. I've had back problems where just turning around in bed sent waves of sharp pain that froze me in place. Etc. Probably not much different from what any poster here has personally experienced. Yet I never (and still do not) feel that any of these situations needed opioids. My gums got better within a day. Ibuprofen did help my back, and I learned what to do and not do to make my back better. But I have seen enough from family members and others to realize that my circumstances are not what we are discussing here as to your spouse, or the many other people who legitimately
need opioids. I also learned enough to not base my understanding of opioids on TV cop shows or melodramatic, overwrought, puritanical headlines in the current "OPIOID CRISIS!" news cycle.
Folks- the Greater Fool has a lot more knowledge of what his (?) spouse is suffering, what has worked for her (?), and what their options now are, than we strangers do. Opioids have unpleasant side effects in addition to serious risks and I am certain that both the GF and the spouse would be thrilled if it was possible to reduce the dosage, or change to other forms of pain relief. And based on the GF's postings here and throughout the Forum he is clearly intelligent and well-informed. I would never dare to assume the he, immersed in this dreadful scenario of watching a loved one suffer day after day, would not have devoted far more research and thought to opioids, their use, and their alternatives than we have (having no such personal motivation).
Dear GF- I agree with you, more people than not see any need for narcotics as a deep character flaw (with the possible exception of the last few days of dying- during which time, BTW, my dad's narcotics were nonetheless severely limited so he wouldn't get addicted!!). And now the politicians and news reporters have further made a complete muddle of it all by mixing together concerns about over-prescription by legitimate doctors, over-prescription by sleazy doctors, over promotion by pharmaceutical firms, diversion of prescription drugs onto the streets, and the street corner availability of straight-up drug-ring manufactured heroin and its derivatives.
As I posted above, it is crucial to depend on facts and not rumor, stereotypes, or what we read in People magazine. Getting it right is important if we want to avoid torturing people already in pain. Getting it right is important if we what to reduce the number of new addicts and help those already addicted. And listening to people such as the GF and their spouse without presuming we know better is one beginning to getting it right.