Mark6
Philosopher
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- Mar 17, 2008
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Or you could do what I did, which is put epix on my Ignore list long time ago. The only reason I got involved in this thread is because some other people's responses to epix piqued my interest, and I figured I can contribute something to them (I certainly do not expect epix to get anything useful out of them). So for the first time in years I ended up reading some of epix's posts.No, I don't feel particularly insulted, nor am I hurt by this. However, I do feel ethically compelled to call the game. Perhaps you will remember that book, Games People Play. A "game" in the book's terminology, is a dishonest transaction, where the one perpetrating the game is actually intent on something other than what they are ostensibly aiming at. Often it's a desire to put the other party down. Usually, unless the other party calls the game-player on what he or she is pulling, the game is set up to put the victim in a no-win situation.
Your barbs are set up to do just that. If the other party choses to stoically put up with them, then you get away with continually zinging them without having to face any consequences for your rudeness. If they respond and object to your barb, you accuse them, directly or indirectly of being overly sensitive. I'm not sensitive to your snotty remarks. However, I do feel an ethical obligation to call them for what they are.
The anonymity of forums, such as this one, enables you to play this game: You can hide behind the identity of "epix" rather than revealing who you are. One reason I use my actual name is for the sake of honest disclosure. Another key to your game-playing may have something to do with maturity: Once you've passed beyond your teen years, perhaps you will at last be capable of civilized discourse.
I admit they changed my opinion of him. Until yesterday I thought epix has some kind of mental illness which makes him seriously believe his posts make sense. Now I am convinced he is just an immature troll.
I do not expect to read any more of his posts, ever.