Nobody is suggesting that the incidents referred to are representative of the entire group of trans people.
Nearly every single source you've cited in this thread has, in fact, done so.
They are however pretty representative of the group "trans rights activists" who are becoming recognised even by ordinary trans people themselves as doing significant harm.
No they're not, and no we don't. There are a very small number of "trans rights activists" and transpeople in general who are awful people. Just like there are a very small number of humans who are awful people. You know what that means, transpeople are humans too.
And "trans rights activists" includes myself, and pretty much any person who believes that transpeople deserve human rights the same as anyone else, and work to achieve recognition of those rights.
There are just as many awful people among trans rights activists as there are among gay rights activists, womens' rights activists, or civil rights activists. I don't hear anyone except wannabe-fascist and similar idiots saying that Valerie Solanas or the "back bloc" militants are representative of all feminist activists or left-wing/anarchism activists, yet when one or two transpeople make headlines for being unpleasant...
It is the existence of these people which leads many women to question and indeed oppose current proposals to allow anyone to identify as whichever sex they like, no questions asked.
Not it's not, and you haven't provided any evidence of that sort. The only women I see "questioning" (JAQing off) trans identity are those who are adamantly opposed to trans identity
in general, and invent all sorts of conspiracy theories to support that opposition. They are just using the existence of a statistically insignificant number of extremists to justify a wider bigotry.
Just like the religious right uses the existence of a tiny handful of cases of same-gender child sexual abuse to paint all homosexuals as predatory paedophiles trying to "recruit" and/or rape children.
When your tactics mirror that of the oppressive reactionary right, it's time to rethink, not entrench, at least for reasonable people.
You can swap the word "trans" for the word "gay" in 90% of every anti-trans assertion and citation you've posted in this thread, and it will read the same. For that matter, you can substitute "Jew" for "trans" in about 50% of them and they will sound disturbingly familiar.
And even if this were true as you claim, then that's back to being clear evidence of bigotry on the part of those women, ascribing the actions of a statistically insignificant few to the larger group as a whole. Something you keep asserting you're not doing, while continuing to do it.
Because obviously there is then no way to ensure that only the nice ones take advantage of the concession.
Sounds like a good reason to oppose gay rights too, after all, "everyone knows" that they sexually assault children in public restrooms, and have been very unpleasant in their demands for rights, even going so far as to engage in rioting and other violence.
Guess what, humans are messy, and any time humans have the freedom to abuse a right or privilege, there will be a few who
will abuse that right or privilege. We're seeing it with white nationalists clinging so tenaciously to their "free speech" rights to promulgate hate and division, and their "right to assemble" being used to justify violent marches and rallies. We've seen it in the past with Black Nationalists like Nation of Islam. We've seen it with black bloc militant far-left anarchists. We see it with ordinary people every single day. The abuse of a right does not invalidate that right.
To deny transpeople their equal rights just because they're just as human as anyone else has a name. Guess what that name is.
Obviously I can't speak for the USA, but the gender-critical voices I hear in Britain are overwhelmingly coming from pretty left-wing Labour women, many of them (former) Labour Party activists.
That is not demonstrated by the sources you've been citing, of which over half have been religious right organizations.
Though I have to admit of some shock at finding myself on the same side as Claire Heuchan and Frances Barber on this issue.
And yet...
Oh, and I believe it's been posted before, and is certainly old news, but it needs reiterating:
Radical feminists team up with right-wing evangelicals to oppose trans rights protections
When you find yourself on the same side as oppressive reactionaries, it's time to re-consider your position. This goes well beyond "strange bedfellows" here.
It's also worth bearing in mind that while any murder is appalling, trans people are murdered at a lower per capita rate than women, at least in Britain.
And after all, Great Britain is the only place that matters, not like all those uncivilized subhumans in the rest of the world.
And again, I strongly disbelieve that, given the available evidence and proven tendency for authorities to -- often deliberately -- misgender transpeople who are victims of hate crimes, and fail to classify violence against transpeople as hate crimes as a result (you can look at the link in my previous post for evidence). So the numbers are well-understood to be grossly under-reported. At least, they're well-understood by those who don't have a vested interest in demonizing, denigrating, delegitimizing, and dismissing transpeople.