So basically you were ignorant of the fact that "the mammalian ear" has been discussed in print over the past few years, on how it evolved via convergent evolution, and you were wrong. I was the one informed on the subject and you were talking about the reptilian ear or something prior to the mammalian ear.
The paper you cited doesn't say that the mammalian ear evolved elsewhere via convergent evolution.
It says that an earlier form of the mammalian ear was already possessed by both
Teinolophos trusleri and the other mammaliforms, inherited from their common protomammal ancestor. All of them also possessed the primitive jaw and dentary jaw bones inherited from that ancestor.
What the article is saying is that
Teinolophos trusleri shows evidence that the dentary bones that formed the bones of the inner ear were still attached to the jaw, meaning that
Teinolophos trusleri and therefore monotremes) separated from the mammal lineage at a point slightly earlier than thought, ie separated at a point before that dentary bone separation occurred in mammals.
But since
Teinolophos trusleri had a working ear (and, indeed, the article makes the assumption that these bones "were already functioning in hearing in late nonmammalian cynodonts and basal mammaliaforms"), then what the article describes is
not the mammalian ear evolving independently, but a part of the
already evolved and functioning mammalian ear evolving independently, with that part being simply whether the bones of the middle ear which developed from the dentary bones in the jaw remained attached to the jaw as the ear functioned, or separated from it as the ear functioned. The fact that these bones, even attached, were already functional parts of the middle ear is
why the separation was evolved independently in both lineages.
This article isn't any sort of shocking, groundbreaking upset of our understanding of the mammalian ear. It is, in fact, really only of interest to those people trying to figure out just when mammals and monotremes separated from each other, and thus how to create a cladogram depicting that.
In other words, what you've done is the equivalent of seeing how the owners of the same kind of car independently modded one part of the muffler in the same way, and claiming that means they both independently developed the entire automotive exhaust system.