I may be missing your point here, but I am actually drinking tea (cold) and eating Newman's Own Ginger Cookies (tasty). I could have miseed it, but I do not remember ever cowering in fear - closest I come to that is hoping thae batch of chili I made will, once again, be a masterpiece - and suspecting (when I make Green chili) that Rik's would beat mine easily.Cowering in fear is no way to live a life son.
I admit though that I still have trouble with people not understanding the simple rule: be prepared. I am prepared for a house fire, I am prepared for a hurricane or tornado, I am prepared (thanks to Red Cross and my wife) for assisting/taking care of an accident victim while waiting for paramedics and I am prepared to make small level house repairs. So, why would I be idiot enough not to be prepared for the also possible home invasion/criminal entry?