What is not clear here is how profoundly or not this child is brain damaged. Are people suggesting it would have been ethical to give Terry Shiavo a kidney transplant? OTOH, at the end of the personal anecdote the mother says the child is developmentally delayed, quite a different scenario.
I need to know how brain damaged before I'm willing to condemn the medical exclusion. Yes there are times where it is a judgement call, but there are times when a medical decision is not agreed with by parents in denial that their brain dead child will never improve.
It depends on how severe this child is affected. Also, hep C is mentioned. That could mean a liver transplant would also be needed in the future. Livers and kidneys are both in short supply. Sometimes that has to be taken into account and yes, we make judgements about quality of life.
Then there is the problem of the parents not hearing everything the physicians said. A parent might hear the mental disability when the doctor also said the immunpsuppressing drugs a kidney transplant entails could worsen the hep C.
Amelia doesn't have hepatitis C. That was only mentioned as something else that was on the doctor's printed lists of contraindications, along with AIDS.
How brain damaged (translating to, what she will and will not be able to learn) is something the doctors don't (and can't) really know at this point. http://ghr.nlm.nih.gov/condition/wolf-hirschhorn-syndrome: "Intellectual disability ranges from mild to severe... Compared to people with other forms of intellectual disability, their socialization skills are strong, while verbal communication and language skills tend to be weaker."
My parents were told by doctors that my brother would never walk or talk. Fortunately they were in denial, so he got to live to do things like this.
Respectfully,
Myriad