Well, I'm not particularly a Christian, but I'd prefer that to the secular society. My whole upbringing through education/the media/ popular culture in this secular society has had behind it the rarely explicitly stated assumption that life and the universe is basically meaningless.
It took me years to see that that was what was actually happening, and to move beyond that.
Well, that's sad for you. I don't see any reason why a secular society has to tell an equivalent lie to religion, and prate that life and the universe is meaningless. Especially when, insofar as I've seen, the non-religious do tend to find great meaning in life and the universe. Just not the same meaning, exactly, that the religious find.
Look, I'm pretty messed up. I can't claim to have a stable or healthy relationship with most aspects of life. But I know that even if I can't figure it out right now, there
is meaning to my life. That it is the meaning I choose to give it is kind of a problem at the moment, yeah, because I'm severely depressed. Yet I take hope from the fact that when I do get better, the meaning for my life will come from
within me. It won't be thrust upon me by other people who don't really have my best interests at heart.
I understand that the true meaning of life is to live it so that you do the most good, not just for others, but also for yourself. Live the best life you can live, do the most you can do. Appreciate, enjoy, experience, and feel....all of it, or as much as you can.
Life is here, life is now. I spent so many of my years concentrated on "somedays," on "eternity," on "forever," that I missed
today entirely. I tried so hard to obey, to follow, to be approved, that I neglected to live.
If I truly felt this life, this universe was meaningless, I wouldn't have cried out for help. I'd have just left. But there is meaning here, and I want it.
As I get better, I'll find it. That's not a belief. That's a simple fact, and I don't even need to contemplate a god to know it.