tjwojo
tjwojo
I see what you are saying. I am sorry I didnt make this more clear in my post. When I use the word heart, I am refering to your gut instinct about things. But also use your brain of course(nobody please get technical with me over how using ure brain and gut instinct are actually the same thing. You know what I mean, at least I think so.) You just have to find a balance when it comes down to these things. Because if one only uses his brain, you can tend to over think things, and end up worring over useless stuff. And for the last 6 months I have stopped thinking and thinking and using my brain about things and started listening more to my heart(gut instinct) and my life has become a lot more easy. This doesn't mean problems dont come up now because I ignore them or something, so that's why my life is more easy. It means I am not creating the problems I was over thinking and worring so much. Like with my g/f. I have found the best damn relationship I have ever seen in my life(this is not just my opinion and my partners opinion, many others have said the same.) But when I had first met her, my heart and gut told me not to let rumors and what people say(that dont know her) effect me. Because she had a bad reputation. And I didnt listen to those rumors and I got something truely great. This gurl changed her life around for me and to make me and her last. She stopped all of the bad things she did, drinking, smoking, drugs in general. She stopped stealing. She stopped flirting with guys, period(you would be amazed how she was when she was going out with this other guy, and from what people that know her have told me, she was always like that.) The list goes on. But people that have known her even tell me that she has COMPLETELY done a 180 for the better. Not to mention how honest and open our relationship is. It's not some ◊◊◊◊◊◊◊◊ where people "say" they are honest and open and tell each other everything. We do. If you beleive me on that or not, oh well, either way. If you know more you would agree. I'll just assume you will take my word on it because I dont want to write that damn long of a post. But anyway, the point is, I followed my heart(gut instinct) and found something truely great.
Sorry again that I didn't make things as clear. I meant you should follow your heart(gut instinct) but also use your head, along with common sense. I hope you get my points. Well I have to go. cya