lonepinealex
Muse
Ah, but we have seen a precedent case in which a husband actually did commit murder for this very reason.
I assume you're referring to the article posted earlier in this thread? Even if we accept the sketchy details of a Daily Mail article at face value, there are big differences.
- Ginday worked in a bank, he was not a wealthy, independent businessman with resources.
- Ginday's marriage was arranged in India and he had only met the bride for a few hours prior to the wedding. Shrien and Anni met in London, dated and had an on-again, off-again relationship lasting almost two years. Both of them were born and raised in Western, liberal countries. Dewani had been having secret gay encounters that whole time, and Anni had called off the engagement at least once. It hardly looks like either of them felt forced or trapped in the relationship.
- Ginday murdered his wife himself, in their home.
- the murder was clearly pre-meditated, with incriminating internet searches. If something similar comes to light in Dewani's trial, I will change my mind.
- There are precedents for gay men leading double lives in all cultures. Ginday and Dewani are not even from the same Indian background - Ginday's background is Punjabi. India is a massive, extremely diverse country of over a billion people, and there are over a million people of Indian origin in the UK. Finding an apparently similar crime (except for most of the actual details and a crude definition of "Indian" culture) is hardly astonishing. There are probably cases of white gay men having done the same thing, just as there will be cases of Indian men having secret gay double lives without resorting to murdering their wives after three days.