It's not entirely surprising that theists aren't lining up to volunteer to be the thread whipping post

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To try to answer your question, Big Les, I think many of the points have already been raised in this thread. Religion tends to be a subjective issue, so whilst one person may have what they rationally consider to be enough evidence that some kind of god exists from their own experiences, they would not be in a position to present anything but anecdotal evidence to someone questioning their belief.
The same might go for someone who worked in the White House overhearing a conversation through a door on Sep 10th, for someone trying to present evidence of sight to someone blind from birth or for the earlier example of the guy who met an alien.
A sceptic can claim they're deluded or lying, but then that could be argued to be a baseless claim in itself. We each make a judgement call using our own logic and the evidence we're presented with and we all hold certain beliefs which would lack the evidence needed to present to another person.
As with the
Contact example, does not being able to prove to someone else that you love your family make that love any less real to you or make you any less a sceptic?
This is sloppy theistic type thinking again. I think that we can all agree that there is one reality-- one truth that doesn't depend on whether people believe it or not. The story of how humans came to be is a single story. There is one truth. We can use the evidence to fill in the details as best we can, but iwe can't make up evidence if we actually want to understand the facts. A skeptic is aware of the ways people fool themselves. You can be aware of how Scientologists or various cults or Sylvia Groupies or Mormons or Jehovah Witnesses are lead astray. But you don't imagine the same for yourself in regards to your similar beliefs. That is what is nonskeptical! You know that it's very human to believe the stuff that people told you when you were growing up-- and to have feelings perceptions that are misleading when compared to reality or given perspective. But you don't consider that you may have been a victim of such when you make claims about a god and you are using confirmation bias when you conclude your god (however nebulously defined) is more likely to exist than Zeus.
Unless God is a "feeling", Any claims about him are either "true" or "false". Either the god you believe in exists or doesn't except in your mind, correct? And we know that Zeus probably only existed in peoples' minds, right? We know that schizophrenic delusions only exist in peoples' minds. We know that Scientology is a human made religion. We know that humans have been detecting agency in things they don't understand for eons (storms are formed by angry gods) and then confirming that bias (our crops grew well because we sacrificed a virgin-- let's do two next time...) If your god is real-- then why are you a "whipping post" when you discuss him? When I talk about the facts of evolution-- the fact don't change just because my audience doesn't understand them. I don't feel like a whipping post because of their ignorance. I may work to help them understand, or I may decide it's not worth my time. But labeling yourself a whipping post is like labeling yourself a martyr-- you're insinuating there is something good about faith without showing what that something is... or why you came to believe in your particular brand. The facts about evolution don't change and I don't need others to believe or find that truth rational in order to not feel like a whipping post. I think theists use this "you guys are being mean" blather to keep their delusion alive for themselves... to make their god off limits for questioning. To make those who doubt their god feel bad just as their gurus taught them.
There are facts and there are everything else-- feelings, beliefs, myths, illusions, etc. While I believe that you believe god exists. I see no more reason to believe that your god exists anymore than you believe that Zeus exists. Any facts you make about your god cannot be factual to anyone else until that god is proven to exist. Otherwise, it's like saying "engrams (Scientology entities) cause you to have a difficult life" unless you "clear" them. Not only is that NOT a rational claim for obvious reasons. It's the same kind of irrational claim as any made about a god for the same kinds of reasons. It's manipulative, assumes facts not in evidence, and is prone to confirmation bias-- it's also based on invisible, immeasurable entities that there is no reason to believe exist.
Your blind example is ridiculous... because things that you see have qualities that can be measured and explained by others. These qualities exist whether the blind person can understand them or whether you can convey that understanding. What you say can be corroborated because it has a
basis in reality. Even if you overheard something and couldn't prove it... the world is one in which those words
were said... that would be a fact that no one can change even if you can't prove it. If one day you discover and audiotape happened to be running at that time, that conversation should be on it. That's the way reality works. Or perhaps you'd learn that you misheard things--because humans are readily prone to such errors in logic.
But
facts are true whether people believe in them or not. That would be true of god as well... and zeus and pink unicorns and schizophrenic delusions and you and me and the spherical nature of the earth. You are confusing fact with opinions about facts. The facts about such things are the same. 2+2=4 no matter how much someone's subjective self tells them it isn't so.
Skepticism is usually about using facts to develop opinions about facts. It seems to me that belief in a god is having an opinion that is not based on facts-- rather it's using a lack of facts to imply a murkiness where you insert some nebulous god claim.
Your belief about a god has no bearing on the fact as to whether that god exists. It also has no bearing on whether it's logical or rational to believe in your god. It's just a subjective feeling that benefits you or that you imagine benefits you. I'm not skeptical that you have such feelings-- I just don't think your feelings mean what you imagine them to mean. I see no valid reason for thinking your conclusions abut your god are any more likely to be true than the hijackers conclusion about theirs. I wish there were valid reasons. But believers never give any but they tend to be big on demanding respect from skeptics for their beliefs. So us nonbelievers are left in a world where all sorts of crazy people believe all sorts of irrational things for reasons they cannot explain even to themselves. And, because they believe that faith is good--they compete to be seen as more faithful-- which makes them the
opposite of skeptical as far as I can see. If faith is belief without or despite evidence, skepticism is letting evidence lead you toward the truth.
So, per my way of thinking, when a skeptic believes in a god, he/she is clearly not applying their skepticism to that god-- they are not applying the same skepticism that they would to homeopathy or conspiracy theories or other religions or other woo-- and I'm always curious as to why-- though that question is ever avoided.
Why should skeptics treat someones claims about their god any differently than we treat claims about Sylvia Browne's special powers? I just wish a theist would give a good solid answer to this question sometime.