I'd just like to point out that a person's post count or perceived thick skin in no way justifies any personal attacks or rudeness. Also, you may find that some members take exception to being 'boxed' into labelled groups, so this should be avoided where possible.
To comment on topic, and not from a mod's perspective, I feel there is much to be lost by insisting that skeptics be atheist. Skepticism is aside from religion. It is a process, a method of managing information. I would never tell my deist or christian friends (or those of any other religions) that they are not skeptics, if I can clearly see that they use a skeptical approach in life.
Even the most atheist skeptic in the world is still likely to have a blind spot, or a misunderstanding of something. There is no such thing as a perfect skeptic - it's like the 'no true scotsman' fallacy.
I don't think anyone is insisting on skeptics being atheists... it's just that most are. "Atheist" is a label people give themselves just like Deist, Christian, or Skeptic. And all believers have labels they give non-believers-- Scientologists call non-scientologists, "wogs". Atheists have certainly received their share of negative labeling at the hands of theists, and many theists who come here carry such prejudices with them. Everybody thinks that people who fall into the category they label themselves are the "most moral" or "right"-- and nobody wants the labels given to them by others. But all of this is about opinions and feelings and so forth. I don't think that anyone can be successful in making others "believe" or "disbelieve" something. Belief is like feelings-- subject to manipulation but not ready control. And categorization is how humans understand the world-- we see the world in black and white and slowly fill in the shades of gray, and if we are lucky we eventually see it in color.
From my perspective, the people accusing other people of rudeness are very often far more rude than those they accuse.... more judgmental than those they accuse of judging them... more likely to group people into negative categories while complaining of others doing so to them. But rudeness, like belief, and opinions, and feelings-- are subjective.
When people come to this forum and expect a sort of deference towards a non-skeptical viewpoint, I think it's fair to show that they are not applying equal skepticism to their own woo as they do to other brands of woo. I don't agree with the position that the prospect of "some god" is as equally likely as "no god", and I don't like the kinds of statements that put the two claims on equal footing. "God exists" is an assertion that proposes a fact-- not an opinion.
The truth would be the same no matter what people believed. Some god of some sort
exists in some way while being completely immeasurable and undetectable to humans-- or he/she/it/they do/
does not. We understand that life evolved in only
one manner whether we ever understand it completely or not-- but just because we don't have all the answers... doesn't make it skeptical or even rational to insert "magic". I don't tell people they are not skeptics. But when people share their opinion that "atheism is as irrational as theism" or some other such notion-- then I consider that an invitation to share my opinion to the contrary.
I consider skepticism a great tool for separating the truth that is the same for everybody from everything else-- myths, delusions, spin, opinion, lies, fables, fairy tales, hopes, wishful thinking, beliefs, mottoes, ideals, legends, etc. Because when we understand the facts-- they can bring us more knowledge... the kind that everyone can access--not just people of faith. I also think truth shouldn't be afraid to be prodded and tested and that it's important for skeptics to question the assertion that "faith is good" or a means of knowledge. I think it's important to pin down the points and definitions people are trying to convey and to expose manipulative language and inferences. How else does one learn the skills of critical thinking except through such practice?
There is no test for belief or skepticism or agnosticism... they are just words. But to me, the "goal" of skepticism and science and critical thinking is about discovering and understanding the facts... and learning to separate the things that are not facts from the facts so that we can learn more and not be hindered by the common snafus in human thinking (which Randi so expertly exposes). I think theism inculcates a kind of shield against this sort of knowledge by claiming "divine truths"-- and this keeps people from understanding really amazing facts that humans have uncovered and are sharing with each other for the first time thanks to advances in science and technology.
There is only one truth-- one reality-- one history of our universe-- and it's the same no matter what people believe. I would think that skepticism would be about discovering those facts, furthering them, using them to further understanding, and sharing them with others so that they might be protected against the manipulations of less scrupulous sorts-- so they can have the joy of thinking and learning and furthering knowledge... so they don't have to be handicapped by the "fear" of questioning faith.
Who is saying that you can't be a skeptic unless you are an atheist? I don't think skepticism has a dogma about what you must or mustn't believe. I think it's a strawman to suggest that this forum is chasing away "recruits" because of vocal atheists. (And why do you need to recruit people to the truth anyhow?) I think there are all kinds of people here that are off-putting and rarely does it have to do with insisting that skeptics be atheists. There are also all kinds of brilliant funny and insightful people that teach a great many without seeming awareness of the fact. Nobody is always brilliant or right or educational--but some are amazingly so, and I consider this a great resource to anyone who stumbles across this forum. I think the excellence far outweighs the negative. Plus, there are clearly very respected skeptics that are forthright about their beliefs (Hal's deism) who many people find to be very inspirational and who have much to teach and share. But Hal doesn't make claims about his beliefs that can be tested... he doesn't assert moral superiority for believing... neither do most of our respected believing forum members. He doesn't even claim that it's rational. He doesn't seem to hold judgments about non-believers based on their non-belief. He considers his beliefs personal and not a subject he wishes to have scrutinized by forum members.
While it's true that nobody knows everything and everyone has blind spots, skepticism to me is about using all of our minds to find out as much as we can about the real world we all share. Claims of divine knowledge can't have a part in that until or unless divine knowledge of some sort is proven to exist. People are free to have faith-- but faith is not a tool in the skeptics toolbox for understanding the world or to find out the truth. So although, not all skeptics are atheists, assertions regarding divine knowledge or divine entities are just not useful ways of finding information that is true... and I would expect all illogic to be probed on this forum when presented as a tool for finding such.