For what it's worth, I agree with you most of the time. However, you can be quite hot-headed which I think can be off-putting to newcomers who don't share the same your views, and may disincline them to really critically examine their beliefs. Hot-headedness is fine in some situations: moderation is the key. Please don't take it as an insult, it is not intended that way.
I'm not taking it poorly. I want to know the examples of where I'm "hot headed". Because I feel that it's always in response to something I find "hot headed" or snide. But maybe it's not. I'm trying to see if it's like the exaggerated "bad guy" stuff that Dawkins gets just for daring to say god is a delusion or if I really am saying something "shrill" or "strident" or "unfair" or if I'm "striking first". Maybe it's because females are expected to be more demure, because I don't think I sound harsher than my critics.
I try to contain my venomous self and give warning when it's a-coming... but when I get the sense that no matter what I say it will be exaggerated in "evil", then I suspect that someone is protecting some belief that they don't want to put on the table for examination. Instead they want to demonize me because I'm threatening their belief. So I poke... and poke... and when they blow up, I feel like I'm right. So I put them on ignore, but they still show up in other peoples' posts and then I'm tempted to poke some more.
But it is just words. And if they offend people then maybe it's good for them to ask themselves why they are offended. And I really will apologize if I got it wrong. But apologist is my way of defining what I see... it's an opinion... it is not worse than than the opinion the apologists have of me. In fact if we were to gather all the adjectives used to describe each other, the "apologists" are more derogatory... but I've learned to ignore them because their view of me exists only in their head. I think they should ignore me, but they don't... I think this is because they recognize that maybe they
are a bit of an apologist or vigilante... maybe more people share my opinion of them than their opinion of me. Maybe an examination of actual words shows that I'm more on target than they are.
Or maybe I really am being nastier than is warranted and insinuating that I know what a real skeptic is and I think I get to define it. It would help to have the quotes in front of me, because every time the apologists quote me, their interpretation is so far off the mark that I come to the conclusion that it's the way they interpret that is the problem--not what I said. But I'm willing to examine where I'm unfair with an objective audience and hear their input on why it was harsh and what I might have said instead and why harshness is bad, etc.
After all, it's just words... just opinions. The truth is the same for everybody no matter what I or anyone else says and skepticism is about understanding that truth... the one that is the same for everybody... the one that isn't "subjective" or based on opinions.
I trust you Moby... so if you find me being hot-headed... cut and paste and show me, so I can learn. I feel like I defend new members I like from the clutches of the vigilante apologists... if I frighten away some other new members then I suggest they develop thicker skin like I have. It's just words. Opinions.