So, let me get this straight...
1) There is an undetectable 'something' exerting force on all matter in the universe.
No. It is by definition not undetectable if it is exerting a force; it can be detected by the action of that force. The force involved is gravity, and it has detectable effects on both visible matter and on light. The only source of gravity we know of is matter. This matter's distribution, based on the observed effects, is not the same as the distribution of light sources. It therefore does not emit light. An appropriate name for matter that we know is there by its gravity effects, but that does not emit light and is therefore dark, is "dark matter." And that is what we call it.
2) The force it exerts is used to explain certain phenomena that had puzzled scientists before its 'discovery.'
No one was or is puzzled; it's obvious that if there are gravitic effects upon light and visible matter, the most likely source (since we know of nothing else that creates gravity) is matter that does not emit light. In other words, dark matter.
3) Only a select few understand the real nature of this 'something' and the force it exerts.
No. No one understands the real nature of the dark matter; it is a mystery. However, the nature of the force is obvious; there is only one force known that can affect both the path of light and the path of matter, and that force is gravity. Unless there is new physics, and it's very unlikely, there is no other force that will do what we see happening.
4) Anyone who might have any real understanding of this 'something' is loath to share it, except with other members of the select few.
All we know has been shared. There's nothing more to know right now; we need more information to figure out anything more, and we're doing all we can to get it. When we have it, it will be announced. If you'd care to go to school and get a degree in high energy particle physics or astrophysics, you could help. If not, you'll have to wait like the rest of us.
5) Anyone who exercises a healthy measure of skepticism and asks for material - not theoretical - proof of this 'something,' is ignorant and unqualified to evaluate the proof in the first place.
All the proof there is, you have seen. That there is something there is unquestionable; whether that something is actually matter, or is new physics, remains to be seen; most likely, it's matter, but what type of matter we have no idea. If it's not enough, your only choice is to wait. You are, at least, not alone, not even in your frustration at this state of affairs.
6) Proof of the existance of this 'something' rests solely upon accepting the validity of the authorities who formed the hypothesis in the first place.
No. Proof of the existence is based on observations that anyone can make, given the data to do so. That data has been presented to you. There is no more. Until there is, you'll have to wait like everyone else.
Now, you all have to admit that from a certain point of view, it all seems to imply something supernatural.
Actually, most likely, it's not supernatural at all; it's either matter that doesn't emit light, or it's new physics. Either way, it's not supernatural.
I'm not saying that the Dark Matter hypothesis is invalid, but so far, the only 'proofs' have been less than convincing.
If you find them so, then you have perhaps not understood their nature. I suggest that if you wish to understand what we find out when we find it out, you have some study to undertake. There are many here who it would appear are willing to help with that. But you'll have to do some work on your own as well. Those of us who do understand it do because we already have.
I am saying from an engineering standpoint that without a practical application, the Dark Matter hypothesis is irrelevant, no matter how truthful and valid it may be.
We don't know how relevant it might be, nor what practical applications might or might not present themselves once we understand it better. In most cases where we have found new things, practical applications that we could not have imagined until we knew what we were dealing with have emerged. Whether that will be the case here remains to be seen, and we are all waiting just as anxiously as you are. Though it would appear some of us have more patience.