Ladyhawk said:
People who say or suggest such things to you and your wife are cold and insensitive people. But, please remember, Luke...at least you and your wife had a choice to keep the child or terminate the pregnancy. I am not pro-abortion. I am pro-Choice. Every person has to make their own decision about being a parent and the government should not have the right to mandate parenthood...or, more accurately, motherhood since our society typically lets dad skate if he wants to...
I'm actually kind of amazed that people are being so nice to Luke.
Roe v. Wade is about the
legality of abortion. Personal hatred of abortion really has no logical connection to the question of whether it should be
legal, or at least none that I've ever seen cogently expressed in any discussion on the topic. Rather, there's an
emotional connection, and it's the kind wherein emotion trumps reason.
I could see an argument like "Abortion is bad, and I think making it illegal would be a good way to stop it, because of this and that and the other reason." And then another person might say, "Well, making abortion illegal doesn't make it go away; it just drives it underground and builds up crime, in a way similar to how alcohol prohibition didn't make drinking go away; it just encouraged crime." Another person might say, "Those figures are made up; there really weren't many back-alley abortions when it was illegal, and here are the numbers." Someone else might say, "OK, but when you look like countries like The Netherlands, where abortion is readily available, the actual number of abortions are even lower than your revised figures." And then someone could say, "Yes, but the social climate is different here, so you can't compare apples and oranges." And someone might say "But on the other hand, the social climate is part and parcel of the same thing. Jerry Falwell has gone on record as saying that once abortion is illegal, they'll go after contraception as well." And so on and so forth.
Now, which of these arguments one
agrees with, or if one agrees with any of them at all, is irrelevant. Point one is that they are actual
arguments. Point two is that they are completely fictional, because this isn't what happens.
People are, in Nietzsche's words, all too human. They have this thin little neocortex that they think is
da bomb, but it's easily overridden by emotion to the point of hardly working at all, which happens pretty much of the time.
To be fair, there's plenty of emotionalism and bad logic on the "pro-choice" side. Within the next twenty years, it will probably become possible to abort fetuses without killing them but instead bring them to term. Shortly afterward, it will become commonplace. This will take the wind out of the sails of the "pro-life" movement. But it's gonna cost. Even a casual glimpse of
Statistical Abstracts of the United States shows that there ain't no way the adoption system can possibly absorb this. Then women are gonna learn some things about child-support laws that they have mostly seen no problem with, and they'll be singing a different tune.