Sam.I.Am
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Not deserve it and it's not a race issue either as you said (I never said or even implied the race of poor people because they come in all colors).Apologies, I was confusing you with Sam.I.Am whose view does seem to be that the poor basically deserve it.
What I "basically" said is that most of the poor people who can't seem to break the cycle get stuck where they are by their own bad decisions. Sometimes those bad decisions were made years before. From a criminal history to not applying themselves in school. Those two things alone will make the trip out of the (as you put it) "Black hole of Calcutta" much harder and it's all on them when that happens.
There are plenty of people who grew up in the exact same neighborhoods and went to the exact same public schools that DID get out. They kept their noses clean and paid attention in school and did their homework assignments, that went on to colleges or universities or even trade schools (many educational institutions have set aside scholarships and grants specifically for low income people with good grades) and gained even more education that they could apply to getting good paying jobs. That's how you get out of the hole.
The thing is that you must always keep your eye on the prize and not get caught up in the things that will tie you down inside that hole. That takes a bit of self control and willpower. No drinking or drugs (two really big money sucking things to stay away from), no cable (get an antenna for free broadcast signals and maybe a Netflix account to rent DVD's or whatever), no latest and greatest gaming console on a 40" TV, no smart phone with a data plan (get a prepaid phone or the most basic cell service that you can find) and so on. Those are smart decisions.
Go get a job, even a crap one. It gets you (and keeps you) in the habit of getting up in the morning and going to work. Don't have a job? Treat looking for one like a job. Make it a 9 to 5 daily search. Anyone who is willing to work no matter what the job may be will get a job pretty quickly. Even if the job is just a stepping stone while you look for something better it's still money and it helps give one a sense of purpose on a day to day basis. That's a good decision.
Don't make babies that you can't afford and that will keep you from going out and working or getting an education because child care costs too much. That's a good decision.
There are plenty of other things big and small that someone can do to get out of the hole. From making your own meals, including bread (dirt simple to do for pennies a slice instead of a dime or more a slice) to either getting a beat up car just for transportation to your job (or, if public transportation is available most of those have monthly passes that cost far less than the regular fares do if you use it almost daily).
So if they CHOOSE to not do these types of things then yes, they do deserve it. Bad decisions usually have bad outcomes. People with the intestinal fortitude to stick to a good plan can get out of that hole. There are no shortcuts for the vast majority of people so it's up to them to force a change in their lot in life.
If you think of every little bump or hiccup that life throws at you as a roadblock without looking for a way past it then that's your fault. It really is that simple.
Finally. You are the one who brought up race, not me. I never said nor impiled anything about race because race isn't the problem. Cultures, attitudes and peer pressure are the problems. If having a black president from a single parent home doesn't prove this then nothing ever will in the eyes of people like you.
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