I would say “Yes” and I don’t understand your “No” (even followed by “not really“

. A straight line is a direct path between two points. A curved line is an indirect path between two points, and therefore a longer distance. The extra distance of a curve comes from the fact that it’s an indirect path.
Sure, it comes from the fact that it's an indirect path, but not from the bend itself. Consider a right triangle. The hypoteneuse is the shortest path between the two far corners. To calculate the length of the other path, you add the length of the two other sides. What you do NOT do is calculate any length for the right angle itself. That is what I meant. And it's equivalent in relativity: acceleration is like the bend.
So are you saying that a straight line is a shorter distance but a longer time interval, and a curved line is a longer distance but a shorter time interval? Perhaps it would help if you could clarify exactly what you mean by “time interval“.
I mean the time experienced by an object following that trajectory, also refered to as the "proper time".
Here's the Euclidean metric in 2D:
ds
2 = dx
2 + dy
2This gives the shortest path between two points as being a straight line. Take an easy example: a straight line between (x=0,y=0) and (x=1,y=0), which has a length of 1. For this path, dy=0. For any other path, the dx contribution will remain the same, but dy will not equal zero, so the path is longer.
Now here's the Minkowski metric (using only one spatial dimension for simplicity and dropping the c for simplicity):
ds
2 = dx
2 - dt
2Note the minus sign. Now consider a straight line from (x=0,t=0) to (x=0,t=1). If we integrate the metric along this path, we get
s
2 = -1
With this metric, s is imaginary, but that's not important (we could have put the negative on the x instead of the y and everything would work just as easily), all that means is the distance is time-like and not space-like. It's the magnitude of s (in this case, 1) which tells us how much time passes for something following this path. Now here's where it gets interesting: the straight path has an s
2 of -1, but if we take a non-straight path (so that dx is no longer zero), then the magnitude of s
2 will be
smaller. What does this mean? It means that any curved path has a
shorter time interval. So any object traveling along that curved path will experience less time than an object traveling along a straight line between those two end points. And it turns out that this applies regardless of which two endpoints you choose, as long as you're dealing with time-like paths (in other words, no going faster than light). The spatial part of the Minkowski metric is still Euclidean-like, so spatial distances are still shortest with straight lines.
Don’t really understand this. Is this because the travelling twin has undergone acceleration and the other hasn’t? If so, it seems that acceleration is the thing that causes time dilation.
In one sense, yes, but in another sense, no. You need acceleration to get a curved path. But as my previous example with circular orbits was intended to show, the details of the acceleration are not what matter. You can have two curved paths between the same end points with identical proper time (the time interval experienced by traveling along that path) but radically different accelerations.