I'm not some my-theory guy.
Yes you are. Your theory is that you look at the mainstream evidence:
But you can make electrons and positrons out of light waves in pair production, and you can diffract electrons. Plus in atomic orbitals electrons exist as standing waves. And they have a magnetic moment, and the Einstein-de Haas effect "demonstrates that spin angular momentum is indeed of the same nature as the angular momentum of rotating bodies as conceived in classical mechanics". wave nature of matter is beyond doubt.... and reply with a crackpot objection you obtained by thinking about it, not by reading the sources you just linked to.
How can a point particle have any angular momentum? The How can a something made from a wave with a wave nature be a point-particle? It can't.
See that? That's "Two things Farsight's brain came up with by thinking about some physics he read". It's your theory.
(Both of these questions have mainstream answers. Both of the answers are "quantum mechanics is different than classical mechanics".)
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