I've talked about the electromagnetic field as a frame-dragged three-dimensional geometrical "twist" distortion of the space around an electron.
This is a really seriously stupid claim, Farsight. The only thing that is known to bend spacetime is
energy. We know exactly how much energy a photon has, and therefore we know how much it bends spacetime. Ditto for an electron, a neutrino, a neutron, a planet, etc.
This amount is tiny---absurdly tiny. It's too small to be have any bound states. (If it did have a bound state, it would be what we call a "geon". This possibility has been studied extensively and it doesn't work.) It's too small to have any effects at all, in fact.
If you want to
hypothesize that the photon bends spacetime a lot, why don't you tell us what part of General Relativity you are throwing out the window? We can tell you in response which null-result precision gravity experiments you are in disagreement with. Alternatively, answer this: when I shoot an photon beam through spacetime, I expect it to follow a geodesic path, which may or may not (as in gravitational lensing) be a classical "straight line". Nonetheless, I can fire a photon beam through the middle of
the densest photon clouds you could possibly imagine (as in, say, femtosecond lasers, or NIF, or NOVA) and it doesn't deflect one bit. Why doesn't an
external photon follow a non-straight geodesic through the curved space in your hypothetical twists?
(I'll tell you why: because the thing you call "spacetime" in your imagination is just a mental image of some curved lines, and has no relationship to anything in physical law.)