canispeaktodave
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I tend to agree, but the fear of death is pretty ingrained, which despite the distress that it causes is (as I indicated in my last post) probably a good thing.
The interesting thing about being aware of death is that most people don't believe its going to happen (well until your really old), which is vital to be able to live your life day to day. When a trauma happens, e.g. Cancer or a death of a close relative, that "believing its not going to happen" is lost fear of death becomes death anxiety. Every little palpitation becomes "am i having a heart attack", every headache a "have i got a brain tumor". This happened to me, when my Dad died and took me the best part of 4 years to get over. (This is not the reason for the original post, coincidental). It's amazing how the human body/mind can be aware of its own demise but be happy to live and do moderately dangerous things (driving a car, football, rock climbing) without thinking actually of death.