Hi, Roadtoad --
Roadtoad said:
That was what I got out of the Bible. Maybe I missed something.
You didn't miss a thing. I remember as a teenager, I was questioning the whole Christian thing. Why, exactly, did Christ have to be nailed to a cross? What did that really have to do with anything? What was the point?
Around that time, my family wound up joining a church who lived to serve. Literally. A little plaque on the door to the church office said: "Jesus first, others next, yourself last." And the priest of that church often preached to serving Christ
in every person. It was exactly what I needed to learn about God and faith at that point in my life. It seemed to me that faith was useless unless it motivated you to act -- that whole passage in James was my mantra: "What use is it, my brothers and sisters, if a brother or sister is naked and lacks daily food, and one of you says, 'Go in peace, keep warm and eat your fill.' " I realized that the cross wasn't the important thing in Christianity, it was the sympathy, it was the empathy with those who suffer, and thus the willingness to love others.
It was through this experience that I realized what living as a true Christian was like. As I went to college I struggled with my career choice. How would my daily life serve others to the best of my ability? A long story short, I realized my calling to be a music therapist in a community hospital serving the mentally ill, homeless, and drug-addicted in the area. My job is part of my devotion to God, and a celebration of the gifts God has given to me. I also learn every day from the gifts that these troubled people have, too.
I think that, in some ways, yes, atheism can give you some of this assurance, but it's not structured in the same way as a healthy Christian faith is. (And, as you showed with your traumatic experience in the Scouts, just because someone thinks they are a Christian doesn't mean that 1) they actually are; and 2) that they have any of this understanding of how to be a healthy Christian.) I don't sense the depth of this kind of living (in faith) in an athiest view, either. So it doesn't seem to be of an equal quality. But I'm willing to be educated on that matter.

I know that what I have found works for me, though.
Thanks for letting me share...
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