phiwum
Penultimate Amazing
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I like this post.Everybody is vested in maintaining their own point of view. In general it is not easy to convince someone else that they are wrong and you are right.
I’m not saying that preserving delicate sensibilities is the priority. I’m saying that offending delicate sensibilities is counter-productive to the goal of reducing/ending racism. Recognize that it’s the goal that’s important and you will become more open minded about the methods of achieving it.
I assume most people are motivated, at least a little, by a desire to be a good person who at least tries to do the right things.
Think of it this way; how often does fat shaming lead to weight loss? I’m going to say pretty close to never, therefore fat shaming is counter-productive.
I’m trying to do it in this thread. I’m exchanging ideas with lots of people who have radically different ideas than I do about what racism is, and I haven’t yet called anyone a racist. Instead I’m focusing on what they’re actually saying, and trying to communicate my own ideas in ways they will best be understood.
Start with your own assertion that racism is not a binary state but a place along a spectrum. Add further that everybody is somewhere along that spectrum with very few truly enlightened beings at the far “zero racist” end of the spectrum. Then look at moving toward that end of the spectrum as an act of growth that most people will want but that many people will need help with.
Aren’t I?
People are not born understanding trigonometry either, and you can’t just point to a diagram and a formula and say, |See? If you don’t understand that you’re a bad person. Bad. Shame!”
There is a reason why “woke” is called “woke”. The reason is before you’re woke you legitimately don’t get it. Becoming woke is an educational process that requires the cooperation of the person being educated. You don’t get that cooperation with hostility.
Prior to the online tests for racist tendencies, I'd say you were spouting nonsense. After surprising results, I like your suggestion.
I'm not consciously racist. I don't believe in racist ideology. But I seem to have some latent racist tendencies of which in not aware. It's a shame.