That doesn't help with the question at hand. That link shows how to calculate to odds of winning the hand given a particular deal. It does not show the odds of a particular hand occurring.
In this case, the chances of winning are exactly the odds of getting a flush, since in the case of both players holding aces, that is the only hand that will allow one person to win. If you would bother to actually click on the app, you would see all the odds, from the deal until the river. Which is why I said it is what is needed to answer the OPs question.
Me and my friend were playing poker and we were both dealt a pair of aces - this meant we were likely tie.
Yes. Using either app I linked to, you can see the exact odds at that point. Both players are Win: 2.17%, Tie: 95.65%.
To change that to odds, just call it 96 to one to tie. Or 1 in 50 to win.
I believe that the chance of one of us getting a flush is not as remarkable as he believes. However without knowing the exact chance I'm having difficulty convincing him it is probably around the one in twenty rather than the one in a million he believes.
Poker players can calculate the odds of every hand as it is played. The web pages that let anyone do it shows exactly what the chances (odds) are, at every point. After the flop, if there were two spades, the player holding the ace of spades is now
Win:
4.55%,
Tie
95.45%
So after the flop, the chances of winning, for the player holding the AoS, is 9 to 200.
If a spade comes on the turn, the odds are now
Win: 20.45%
Tie: 79.55%
Or 1 in 5 to win.
These odds would be the same for any suite, I just used spades.
If there were more than two players, it changes the odds, based on what cards they threw into the muck.