I don't think you know me very well. I'm a hard-boiled audiophile. I call myself that because I thoroughly enjoy listening to high-quality reproduced music in the privacy of the home, not because I listen to mains cables (which obviously I don't).
However, until a few years ago I've been knee-deep into stuff like cable woo (line level and speaker cables) and valve amplifiers. I was also very religious. At some point I started to question my religious beliefs seriously. I subsequently fell off religion followed by residual beliefs in any other paranormal concept. Really I have no idea how it was possible for me to come off religion on my own while others just keep going in circles "searching for the truth". I sometimes speculate that being autistic and thus having to rely on conscious thought for nearly everything I do might have a part in it.
Anyhow it became inevitable that my reasons for believing in audio-woo were astoundingly similar to the manner in which paranormal woo was "defended". So I was forced to clean up those beliefs too. The best way to do so is to do properly controlled experiments and accept them. Or as I explained in
http://www.randi.org/jr/2006-01/010606netherlands.html#i9 to keep one's mind open to see yourself in the act of being utterly fooled. To be honest, events such as the latter are even more convincing than the db trials, as you can always (in good cognitive-dissonance fashion) try to weasel your way out by questioning the validity of the test.
Since that time I spend much more time measuring the circuits that I develop, only doing quick listening tests at the end of the process to make sure that my objective (measurable) design goals were correctly chosen (and in all fairness just to enjoy the fruits of a work well done).
What's more remarkable is that since then I'm getting much more critical acclaim for my designs than before, lots of it from the people who "trust their ears only" and from magazines who themselves are thoroughly into audio religion.
But all this to say that in order to understand what makes a religious audiophile tick I only have to travel a few years back in time. The only thing I don't know is how I can use this experience to get other people to take the same step.