Mycroft said:What is this supposed to prove? You still havened demonstrated harm from being handcuffed.
RandFan said:That is simply emotional and only an opinion. You are entitled to it but you are wrong.
Ex Lion Tamer said:Why am I wrong?
RandFan said:Better yet, why are you correct? I am just as entitled to an opinion as you are. If you make a claim it is up to you to prove that claim. Why this has to be explained ever day is beyond me. If it just your opinion then state that fact. My opinion is that you are wrong. Got it?
RandFan said:That would be fine if it was, in fact, a dumb argument. Can you explain why it is? Or do you just "feel" that it is like the this issue with the handcuffs. You can't explain why you think it is wrong it just "seems" wrong.
CFLarsen said:She was definitely harmed physically. If you are not convinced, then you are not convinced.
I get it.
Originally posted by CFLarsen
Why don't you try to handcuff your child and see what happens?
She'd probably like it. She can be strange that way.
A shocking story surfacing within the La Joya School District has many parents on edge. Police say two six-year old boys were performing sexual acts on each other, on campus.
There was a police report taken on the incident that happened April 1. The alleged encounter took place at Emiliano Zapata Elementary School on 7 1/2 Mile Line and La Homa Road.
We are told the two six-year-old boys in question, were performing oral sex on each other, in the restroom.
Minutes later, another six-year-old student walked in and allegedly discovered what was happening.
CFLarsen said:She was definitely harmed physically. If you are not convinced, then you are not convinced.
Why don't you try to handcuff your child and see what happens?
LW said:And psychic powers exist. If you are not convinced, then you are not convinced. Agree? ... I thought so, so why should everybody else agree when you use the same argument?
RandFan said:7 pages and no evidence that this girl was harmed. Which raises the question, what is the point of the thread?
CFLarsen said:You can lead a horse to the water, but you can't make him drink.
Cleopatra said:
From what I saw the use of handcuffs in this case wasn't justified. I repeat that I base my judgment on what I saw.
And you can lead larsen to the truth but you can't make him think.CFLarsen said:You can lead a horse to the water, but you can't make him drink.
This is just gainsaying. If you are not convinced then you are not convinced. Why don't you handcuff a child and see what happens?CFLarsen said:She was definitely harmed physically. If you are not convinced, then you are not convinced.
Why don't you try to handcuff your child and see what happens?
This is what passes for argument according to larsen. Good Larsen, when you don't have an argument use a smilie.CFLarsen said:
Thank you.Cleopatra said:From what I have read there is no proof that the child was physically harmed. I don't know if she was subjected to a forensic examination, I guess that she was but I would be surprized f the police officers have hurt the kid.
Are they objective reasons?There is another kind of trauma though that I have reasons to believe...
Then please share with us those reasons....that it might have been caused to the kid but it's impossible to trace it right now because some psychological traumas cannot be diagnosed immediately.
How and why is this significant?When a police officer arrests a citizen he must report whether he has used handcuffs or not. In any case, he must justify his decision.
Fine, this is your opinion. Can you give us objective reasons why?From what I saw the use of handcuffs in this case wasn't justified.
Yes, and so have I. Can you objectively tell us what it is about your judgment that brought you to this conclusion?I repeat that I base my judgment on what I saw.
Thank you for sharing. Do you have any objective evidence that this fact caused her harm? Do you have any objective evidence that this was done because she was black.Also,I couldn't help noticing that the kid was black.
Watch the video again, this was an extreme situation. It lasted a long time. The teachers absolutely tried persuasion.As for the point of this thread I would be interested to read the reactions of the citizens of a country that has put the foundations of modern Education and Children's Psychology when they see it collapsing in the sight of a 5 years handcuffed kid. The teachers in the school have nulified themselves by chosing to exercise discipline instead of persuasion.
I really resent this. Many if not most of us have said that we found the incident troubling and that it was perhaps not warranted.Instead all I have read is a lame attempt for a rationalization of an action that should have caused at least a sense of disturbance...
Which is not objective evidence. Things are NOT always as they appear.( whether the kid was harmed or not it was an unpleasant spectacle)
Wrong, we simply wanted to know why we should be outraged....that is shockingly absent from the american posters in this thread just because a European brought the issue as a discussion topic.
Rhetorical.Congratulations.
It is easy to claim psychological trauma. Can you prove it? As I understand just because something is troubling to a child does not mean it will cause any permanant harm. Sending a young child to his or her room can be troubling.Kiless said:I also see that the issue of mental disturbance in the child was raised only much later in the thread. That was my first thought when I saw the film, although there was no reason in my eyes for the police to make handcuffs necessary. I certainly would be thinking of the psychological trauma that could be suffered by the child by going through this action. This isn't justified in my opinion. I'm shocked that the teachers let this happen or indeed, enouraged this to happen.![]()
TragicMonkey said:For the last time, the teachers WERE doing their jobs. They aren't allowed to grab the damned kid! If they had, they'd be doing the opposite of their jobs.
Your objection is to the fact that their jobs require them to not touch the kids in these situations. Fine! But you can't say they weren't doing their jobs correctly. You can only say that they correctly did their stupid jobs.