I can give my take on "expecting people to humor you."
We have had Many people come to this board asking for help on submitting an application for the JREF Paranormal Challenge. In General every poster is polite for the first two pages. Then as the thread drags on with absolutlutely no progress, many posters progressively fall into one of two camps. The first group believes the potential applicant has absolutely no intention of applying and instead is interested in playing game, irking posters and generally winding up the people trying to help. The second group believes the poster is not intentionally tormenting people, but merely is enjoying the general chatting and personal interaction. Both groups are convinced that nothing productive can come from such a thread.
In this thread, I am still convinced that you are sincere.
But I must warn you. Some of the items that push posters into the two camps are
(1) refusing to provide a clear and succinct description of the claim.
(2) insisting that there must be a subjective aspect to the judging.
(3) refusing to test oneself in a repeated and controlled manner.
(4) arguing over the definition of words like "proof" and "paranormal."
(5) insisting that one is exceptionally intelligent, talented, or skilled.
(6) writing posts in which over half of each post has nothing to do with a protocol for the challenge.
As I said, I am still calling you a sincere applicant.
Edited to add
My point is that there is a good chance that by the top of page four of this thread, it may have a decidedly different tone.
Also, if any regular posters think I am off base on any aspect of this post, even the tiniest aspect, please do not hesitate to correct me.
Thanks for this intelligence, Ladewig. I think you have made yourself quite clear. I AM sincere. As you can see, one poster, whom I believe is a moderator, Loss Leader, wrote in a post here today, that if I told him exactly what I wanted in a private message, that he would try to help if s/he (I believe that person is a male) could (I believe with helping me get a qualified statistician, actuary, or mathematician to write the recommendation letter, which is all I need at this time. I believe I have at least a beginning protocol which can be refined between myself and the JREF.) Loss Leader said that s/he would not reveal what I wrote in the private message.
I wrote to this Loss Leader in a private message explaining myself as s/he proposed and I have not heard back.
Because of your good will and good faith, and because I know I have been teasing you all terribly by not telling (which I have to say WAS fun), and because you all too seem genuinely interested in, even willing to root for me in my claim, if I don't hear back from Loss Leader privately by this Thursday, May 14, 2015, I will post the exact private message that I sent to Loss Leader at that time. I hope you find this a reasonable compromise.
Further, I expect from you all for my keeping my word in this way, which I will do unless I am physically incapacitated or my computer crashes or some other unforeseen circumstance happens that you see it as a good faith token and that, again, if merited, that you show me your respect that I am serious and not just some cutesy female, which many also believe I am.
That being said, I have never been out-thought by anyone male or female on a fair playing field unless it is in some field I absolutely do not know about like electronics and when I don't know something I have absolutely no compunction about admitting it; I think it is a mark of inferior intellect not to be able to willingly admit a lack of knowledge and to learn if one can what it is one does not know. Please excuse me if this seems like the typical boasting of me "being exceptionally intelligent" but as far as I can tell that is true. I have no problems WHATSOEVER with boasting as long as it is true. There's a saying that the empty jar sounds the loudest.
If challengers to intellectual superiority over me are conniving or lying, sometimes those types got to think they were smarter than me, I admit. However, as one person here whom I find offensive said about me on another forum and I noted that I will not be answering him again, I'm sure I have more in common with Einstein than anyone I or you for that matter have ever corresponded with! Enough said in that vein! Until Thursday, about revealing my plan, or sooner if anything else worthwhile to me comes up here, au revoir.
And Thanks again for your explication of the usual procedure around here, which sounds quite plausible, understanding and gesture of good will (faith?) in believing in my sincerity!
Why DO you think I'm serious/sincere, Ladewig, which again, I ABSOLUTELY AM? Is it because of other things I've said here that I offered proof of, which no one has taken me up on? Or do you just sense this somehow?