Puppycow
Penultimate Amazing
Excellent post.The last decade or so has given me pause, however, about whether I can be proud of my country now.
That's the basic issue I have with it. I'm not just proud of my country by default. It has to rather earn my pride in it, and if it's not doing particularly noble things....well, I have a harder time feeling that pride.
When we speak of patriotism, what do we mean? It must be one of those highly subjective topics, the essence of which is going to vary from person to person.
When I think of my rights, especially those in the First Amendment, I am proud to live here. When I see what my government is trying to do to my rights, and how many of my fellow citizens not only don't get alarmed, but actually think it might be a good thing, I'm not so proud.
When I see how much bounty my country produces, by the sweat of our brows, I'm proud. When I see that everything has a price, and "what's in it for me" is more important than what I can do for you, I'm not so proud.
Don't even get me started on education, and our ranking among various nations in science and math.
I totally understand this. I too cringe when I see Americans behave disgracefully. But I try to keep a balance in my mind and remember that the news media is attracted to the bad things and when things go right, it's not news. It's the problem of "cherrypicking" again; the lawyer's approach. The human mind cannot take in all information, so we see patterns that may just be random noise because we tend to focus on certain things while ignoring others. This is why cold readers can get away with their cons. To some extent this is unavoidable, simply because this is how our brains work.
The US also produces lots of great stuff, leads the world in science, and has many cooperative and helpful international relations. The Iraq war was a huge blunder, but hopefully we will learn our lesson and eventually this sorry episode will fade into history. It may take some time. On the other hand, American and British scientists have invented many lifesaving vaccines such as those for polio and smallpox, and countless other lifesaving technology. I imagine that the vast majority of people in the world have at some time or other directly benefited from some US-created technology, such as a vaccine or something else. So in the big picture, I think there is more to evoke pride than shame, but we should not focus on only one and ignore the other.