As you can all understand, I can't address all of you. It would take me forever. So, I will have to narrow it more down to what is the core. And I guess, the noise is going to be inevitable. Just try to keep it down guys.
Thanks for the contribution Pahansiri.
Yahzi wrote:
1. Can theists do anything about the past? I haven't seen any theology that says God will change the past for you. This would imply that your argument shows theists have as little use for remorse as atheists.
No, it does not.
2. Time is as precious to theists as it is to athiests. We know this for a fact, having read my Seatbelts thread. If time were indeed valued differently by Xians, they would all commit suicide instantly - since they are in effect merely wasting time here on Earth that could be spent in Heaven.
False dichotomy here. Valueing time differently does not lead to suicide.
3. You make the argument that intellectually there is no value in remorse. That might be true, but it certainly wouldn't mean athiests don't feel it. Athiests are just as likely to feel an emotion for non-rational reasons as anyone else. Athiesm does not mean a person who is unflinchingly rational, it just means a person who doesn't believe in God. (Dancing David and Mercutio make this point.)
Obvious point, but atheist can easely adjust their thinking. Letting go of remorse is much easear of letting go of the notion of god I would think.
4. If we break remorse into its components of regret and guilt, then it becomes a little clearer. Nobody should feel regret. There is nothing you can do with regret. You should live your life without regrets. On the other hand, if you don't feel guilt, you are a nutcase. The role of guilt is to induce you to amend your mistakes and prevent you from repeating them. This is why an important part of guilt is redemption: the idea that you can do something to make it right, pay your debts, and once again be free. (I think this is what Hans was getting at.)
Guilt plays no role in analysis. Critical thinking does. The proof is that most mistake we make do not elicit guilt. And guilt and redemption are not necessarily connected either. I really don't see the distinction you are trying to make.
Your argument for why people should not feel remorse actually makes a lot of sense if you substitute the word "regret." However, it has nothing to do with "sorrow over harming someone."
Feeling sorrow for past things you can do nothing about is useless. It serves no purpose.
The Golden Rule provides plenty of reason to feel sorrowful: if you make other people suffer, you will almost certainly be made to suffer by someone else. Also, by making other people suffer, you treat their happiness as unimportant to you, and consequently you can't complain when other people dismiss your happiness as unimportant. We treat others as valuable because we want to be treated as valuable.
These are practical selfish reasons. They don't justify remorse, they seem like arguments or strategies for the future.
If I define "remorse" as "useless guilt," then it becomes obvious that remorse is to be avoided, but there are no gaps in atheistic moral logic. But if you define "remorse" as "actual feelings of sorrow for having done wrong," then it is obvious that atheists should and do feel remorse.
I see no distinction, feelin sorrow serves no purpose for past events.
Your premise that athiests should feel differently based on what they believe seems amazingly similar to my Seatbelts thread,
Yes, I have borrowed the concept. I hope you don't have it copyrighted.
DanishDynamite
And all Christians should not care for their young as they will then go straight to heaven.
True, and the creators of the religion, put some safeguards as to prevent this conclusion.
This is what is known as "an assertion". How do you know that it contributes nothing? As others have already pointed out, most people (athiest or otherwise) have the ability to have this feeling, which indicates that it is an evolutionary advantage (or at least, not a disadvantage). People who don't seem to have this ability, are usually referred to as "repeat offenders".
Yes it is. I know it contributes nothing because most mistakes humans make do not trigger remorse. And that in no way impedes them to correct the mistakes.
Remorse is felt only (very selectively) in some instances. It is very convinient. Why would we feel no remorse in most instances of mistakes and in select few instances yes. What evolutionary advantage, critical thinking is what makes us learn from our mistakes and correct them. There is no other mechanism. Emotions play absolutely no role in analysis. There is no way to solve a problem with emotions. I would think the argument would be that the evolutionary process in the human brain is going in the direction where we are able to more and more use critical thinking instead of emotional responses.
Yazhi wrote:
Because this is the way you prevent yourself from repeating the past event, and how you motivate yourself to make amends.
This argument is a non starter. Most mistakes and correction have absolutely no remorse in the equation. The motivation to correct mistakes can come from many places.
Human beings are motivated by emotion: it is the mechanism by which we make ourselves act, the strings on the puppet. Athiests are no less emotional than theists, and even rationalists must be emotionally motivated. What the rationalist does is not avoid emotion, but rather, construct the emotions that will lead to the desired goal.
So, your motivation to be an atheist is emotional?
Guilt is one way to make yourself do what you have decided you should be doing. Thus, it is perfectly rational.
Guilt is a lousy way to make you do anything. Actions should be done based on rational thinking, not emotion. To act rationally is the opposite of acting emotionally.
I decided that I should switch to non-fat milk instead of whole milk, for health reasons. After much cajoling and practice, I now can barely stand the taste of whole milk, and I actually enjoy the taste of non-fat. This is an example of me using emotion to get myself to do what I want.
No, it is an example of using your critical thinking skills against your original liking (emotion) of whole milk.
Dancing David wrote:
Again you are basing the train of logic on some assumption tha atheists are totaly rational, what if I don't believe in god for some irrational reason , like I think burritos are the sole source of divinity. I would still be an atheist and still not subject to the logic of 'atheist must be rational'.
I have yet to meet an atheist who claims they have decided there is no god based on emotion or irrationality.
Mercutio wrote
Um, did you miss the if clause? Did you understand the difference between should and do? I was not ceding the point, I was pointing out the irrelevance of the point.
I didn't mean to imply that you agreed, only that that is where I want to go.
Valmorian wrote:
Just because one discards an irrational belief like Christianity doesn't mean they also discard all emotions. After all, I'm pretty sure even YOU discard SOME irrational beliefs, hm?
No, I'm not asking to discard *all* of them, just remorse.
No, I think I keep all of my irrational beliefs intact.
Loki wrote:
DanishDynamite seems to be starting from a valid place - establishing the very basis of your claim.
Yes, let's explore that.
Leaving aside atheist versus theist, and "time wasting", and morals, what evidence do you have that 'remorse' is a human emotion that serves no purpose?
The strongest evidence I have is that remorse plays *cero* part in most mistakes-corrections in human behavior. Further, I asserting that the *only way* to correct a mistake is via critical thinking. Emotions have no part in solving a problem.
You seem to be strongly linking remorse with an afterlife - it somehow better prepares you for the afterlife. In the absense of an afterlife, remorse has no value?
No, I linking morality with the afterlife. Morality has no value if there is no afterlife or god.
What leads you to believe this?
I'm starting with remorse. I will show remorse is absolutely and totally unnecessary if there is no god.