Since people here seem to be having trouble actually thinking through the problem on their own to understand why the Netflix/Comcast/Verizon dispute isn't about net neutrality, here's some external sources:
http://www.cnet.com/news/comcast-vs-netflix-is-this-really-about-net-neutrality/
"Netflix’s disputes with broadband providers, like Comcast, have zip to do with Net neutrality."
https://gigaom.com/2014/02/23/the-n...ork-neutrality-violation-but-it-is-a-problem/
"A lot of people seem to think the whole peering and interconnection topic is the same as net neutrality. It’s not, it’s a different issue — it’s a cousin, maybe a sibling, but it is not the same issue." - FCC chairman Tom Wheeler
http://www.cs.columbia.edu/2014/net-neutrality/
"What Netflix paid for in its deal with Comcast was not a fast lane in the Internet, but a special arrangement whereby Comcast connects directly to Netflix's servers to speed up content delivery. It is important to note that
this arrangement is not currently covered under conventional net neutrality, which bans fast lanes over the Internet backbone."