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Mikes Jones writes letter to Ted Haggard about HBO documentary

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Mike Jones, the gay masseur who outed Ted Haggard's gay relationship and meth usage, wrote a letter to him, which was in turn read on Oprah and will air next week.

Jones wrote:

Mikes Jones said:
Dear Ted:

You have publicly apologized to me. I accept your apology. However, I cannot speak for the millions of proud gay men and women. I hope you understand the anger and sadness that overcame me once I discovered who you were. As a gay man who has fought for gay rights since my early teens, continually being treated as a 2nd class citizen, has never set well with me. I have second guessed myself so many times on my actions that I too have been brought to tears and loneliness. I believe you are a good person and could do so much more, my only sadness is that you have decided to make your comeback so publicly that is will open old wounds and new ones. My best to you and your family.

Sincerely,

Mike Jones

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The near last line was in reference to HBO's The Trials of Ted Haggard, which will air January 29, 2009.

I wonder if Haggard will explore not such much his hypocrisy, but how his and others' anti-gay rants/platforms have made young homosexuals' struggles with their identity more difficult. Since Haggard says he still struggles with that issue, I'd like to know.
 
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It's interesting nobody questions whether a god who hates gay sex is deserving of worship or not.
 
I believe you are a good person...

Oh please! :mad: Haggard is a theocratic swine who used ignorance, bigotry, and supersticion (sincerely or cynically, I don't care) to attempt to drag America into a new Dark Age. People such as him don't deserve our pity or sympathy. Hell, showing them contempt is far too kind for the likes of Ted "You called my congregation animals!" Haggard.

My only regret out of Haggard's downfall is that the lying, tyrannical bastard didn't tuck a pistol under his chin and put himself out of our misery.
 
Come on Mark, don't sit on the fence. Tell us what you really think.

:)

For what it's worth, I agree completely.
 
Another scandal? New Life Church buys a boy's silence:

Disgraced pastor faces more gay sex accusations
Boston Herald/Associated Press
Saturday, January 24, 2009

DENVER — Disgraced evangelical leader Ted Haggard’s former church disclosed Friday that the gay sex scandal that caused his downfall extends to a young male church volunteer who reported having a sexual relationship with Haggard — a revelation that comes as Haggard tries to repair his public image.

Brady Boyd, who succeeded Haggard as senior pastor of the 10,000-member New Life Church in Colorado Springs, told The Associated Press that the man came forward to church officials in late 2006 shortly after a Denver male prostitute claimed to have had a three-year cash-for-sex relationship with Haggard.

Boyd said an "overwhelming pool of evidence" pointed to an "inappropriate, consensual sexual relationship" that "went on for a long period of time ... it wasn’t a one-time act." Boyd said the man was in his early 20s at the time. He said he was certain the man was of legal age when it began.
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Boyd said the church reached a legal settlement to pay the man for counseling and college tuition, with one condition being that none of the parties involved discuss the matter publicly.

Boyd said a Colorado Springs TV station reached him Thursday to say the young man was planning to provide a detailed report of his relationship with Haggard to the station. Boyd said the church preferred to keep the matter private, but it was the man’s decision to go public.
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In early 2007, New Life Church disclosed that an investigation uncovered new evidence that Haggard engaged in "sordid conversation" and "improper relationships" — but didn’t go into detail. Earlier, a church board member had said there was no evidence that Haggard had sexual relations with anyone but Mike Jones, the former male prostitute.
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Anticipating criticism of the settlement with the former church volunteer, Boyd said Friday that it was in the best interests of all involved. He would not name the volunteer or the settlement amount.

"It wasn’t at all a settlement to make him be quiet or not tell his story," Boyd said. "Our desire was to help him. Here was a young man who wanted to get on with his life. We considered it more compassionate assistance — certainly not hush money. I know what’s what everyone will want to say because that’s the most salacious thing to say, but that’s not at all what it was."

He said that "secondarily, it’s not great for our church either" that the story be told. Boyd said Haggard knew about the settlement two years ago.

In a letter e-mailed Friday to New Life Church members, Boyd said of the settlement and agreement not to talk: "This decision was made not as an attempt to conceal wrongdoings, but to protect him from those who would seek to exploit him. His actions now suggest that he has changed his mind."

The letter said the church "received reports of a number of incidents of inappropriate behavior" after Haggard’s fall. "In each case, we have tried our very best to do the right thing each time, including disciplinary action when appropriate."

Boyd said the "inappropriate behavior" referred to the man who was the volunteer involved with Haggard. After Haggard’s fall, another church staff member resigned after admitting to what was described as "sexual misconduct."

Boyd said the church will not take action against the man if he tells his story in the press.
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We have legal standing to do that, but not the desire to," he said.

Boyd said he had spoken to the man once and came away with the impression that he was speaking out because of the documentary. "I think what caused this young man to be a bit aggravated was Ted being seen as a victim, when he himself had experienced a great deal of hurt," Boyd said. "I seriously doubt this man would have come forward if the documentary had not been made."
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