Mick Jagger the Child Rapist

So - at what point does the parent's responsibility turn from keeping the child safe, to allowing the child independence in things like sex, curfew, etc.?

15 is the age at which children are informally regarded as youths because they are, among other things, above the age of consent and criminal responsibility. As such, that is effectively the age at which the parents are required to allow their children significantly more autonomy.

It should be noted here that parents are allowed to interfere with their personal life if it's in the interests of their welfare and healthy development. If their child is hanging out with known delinquents and hoodlums, perhaps risking being dragged into petty crimes, their parents are of course allowed to try and stop them from doing so, as long as it's proportionate and does not constitute physical abuse.

The main problem is just that: it's very difficult to completely prevent a teenager, especially one aged 15 or older, from doing what they want without the kind of physical force and restraint that parents are not allowed to employ because it would be considered child abuse.

If they are 13 years old it's easier, but the principle is the same.

Edit: I should point out here that in pretty much all cases where children and youth engage in "socially degrading behavior", such as engaging in crime or otherwise socially unacceptable behaviour that is likely to have a significantly negative impact on their wellbeing and development, the social services are informed and may after an investigation seek involuntary actions if voluntary ones have no effect.
 
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15 is the age at which children are informally regarded as youths because they are, among other things, above the age of consent and criminal responsibility. As such, that is effectively the age at which the parents are required to allow their children significantly more autonomy.

It should be noted here that parents are allowed to interfere with their personal life if it's in the interests of their welfare and healthy development. If their child is hanging out with known delinquents and hoodlums, perhaps risking being dragged into petty crimes, their parents are of course allowed to try and stop them from doing so, as long as it's proportionate and does not constitute physical abuse.

The main problem is just that: it's very difficult to completely prevent a teenager, especially one aged 15 or older, from doing what they want without the kind of physical force and restraint that parents are not allowed to employ because it would be considered child abuse.

If they are 13 years old it's easier, but the principle is the same.

Edit: I should point out here that in pretty much all cases where children and youth engage in "socially degrading behavior", such as engaging in crime or otherwise socially unacceptable behaviour that is likely to have a significantly negative impact on their wellbeing and development, the social services are informed and may after an investigation seek involuntary actions if voluntary ones have no effect.

Thanks. I guess the USA and Sweden would differ quite a bit on deferring responsibility to "involuntarily" handle a 13 year old who is acting up to the government / social services. Personally, I think that it is the parents' responsibility, and calling the cops on your badly-behaving child is the wrong solution. This isn't surprising; the two cultures are fairly opposite in their perception of individualism / collectivism.
 
Thanks. I guess the USA and Sweden would differ quite a bit on deferring responsibility to "involuntarily" handle a 13 year old who is acting up to the government / social services. Personally, I think that it is the parents' responsibility, and calling the cops on your badly-behaving child is the wrong solution. This isn't surprising; the two cultures are fairly opposite in their perception of individualism / collectivism.



Which is why, “It works in Sweden!” isn’t really a good argument...

ETA: And in this specific case, it doesn't work at all. I don't think the US is ever going to be a place where we are all basically forced to allow our 15yo daughters to go off with a notoriously horny 33yo rock star.
 
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Maybe I misunderstood, but when you quoted me and them asked me "Don't I have the right to be irrational?" it seemed that you thought I was implying that you were irrational.

I have no argument with how you raise your children. It is not my business. You seem to be doing what you think best and that is good.

It seems we were both misunderstanding each other's intent. That can happen when posting on a forum. No harm, no foul.

Absolutely. :thumbsup:

I think there might be something we are in agreement on though: Tell me if I'm wrong. If a 33yo Mick Jagger shows up at your door and wants to take your 15yo out, I'm pretty sure your answer is going to be -"Uh, hi Mick, good to meet you! Big fan! But, uh . . .no!"
 
Lemme have a guess

It was Hicktown, USA, somewhere in the South, and Daddy was involved in one or more of the following

Law Enforcement
City Hall
Baptist Church

Okay, I follow too many threads and don't keep up!
Anyway, partly right. Richmond, Virginia. :p
Like I say, I really don't know other details, but wouldn't be a bit surprised if at least two of your three guesses are spot on!
 
I always hated the Stones so they should lock 'em up.


I liked their music, but some of their early, misogynistic texts are despicable.

In Denmark (Wikipedia), what Jagger did with the girl wouldn't have been a crime:
"Whoever has sexual intercourse with a child under the age of 15, shall be punished by imprisonment for up to 8 years ..."

However, if he had started to teach her singing or dancing, for instance as part of her performance in Stones videos, it would have been different:
"Any person who has sexual intercourse with any child under 18, who is said person's adopted child, stepchild or foster child, or who is entrusted to said person for education or upbringing, will be liable to imprisonment for any term not exceeding four years." This applies, e.g., to teachers."
 
Absolutely. :thumbsup:

I think there might be something we are in agreement on though: Tell me if I'm wrong. If a 33yo Mick Jagger shows up at your door and wants to take your 15yo out, I'm pretty sure your answer is going to be -"Uh, hi Mick, good to meet you! Big fan! But, uh . . .no!"


I would ask him how he managed to get cloned 17 years before Dolly.
 

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