CapelDodger
Penultimate Amazing
The oceans accumulate in the basins formed by the oceanic crust. That's new crust spreading from the mid-ocean ridges. It's denser than continental crust, which is why it tends to subduct under it (while scraping some of the upper, lighter layer off onto the continent). Water has nothing to do with it.Without water, there is no difference between oceanic and continental crust.
Water has a lot to do with earthquakes and vulcanism, but that's at the executive end of things, plate tectonics represents the policy end. We might learn to influence earthquakes, but we'll never (?) have any say in plate tectonics.