1. I have demonstrated this, and advocates have closed their eyes, put their hands over their ears, and chanted "Nyaaah, nyaaaah, I can't hear you" (actually it was "bigot, bigot, bigot" but you get the point). Spousal benefits (access to employer-funded medical care, exemption from inheritance taxes) have a cost . Expanding the class of people eligible for those benefits (a) increases the cost and (b) reduces the class of people paying those costs.
Furthermore, the conclusion "bigot" (your "reasonable conclusion") relies on a narrow selection of evidence (internet policy discussions). Only a shill, paid by the Democratic Party to manipulate public opinion with hostile rhetoric in internet forums, would make such an assertion on such thin evidence.
It's the only possible explanation. /SARC
I'm drawing my conclusion re alleged bigotry on your part solely on your internet policy discussions because that is the only data available to us - given that neither of us know each other in real life, or have dealings with each other outside of this site. And based on the data available, the defintion, it would appear accurate.
Not sure how you're concludign that the pool of people paying into spousal benefits of which most of the ones your citing are handled through private insurance, I fail to see how that raises taxes. And if you're going to use a possible exemption from inheritance taxes as a reason to deny marriage (this changing from state to state), then wouldn't a simpler solution be to eliminate that exemption? Rather than denying civil rights to a significant portion of society based on the notion that their continued second class citizenship is needed to ensure that there's a little more in state coffers?
2. Across this planet and across time most governments are NOT democratic.
I wasn't commenting on most governements across time and the planet - I was referring to the US, which has had a democratic government in place since before it achieved independence. I also drew attention to your nation's major allies - all of whom draw from the same political and legal source.
Consent is not an element of the definition of "government".
It is in a representational democracy.
Who consented to ObamaCare?
That would be your elected representatives.
Remember "we have to pass the bill to find out what's in it"? NOBODY read the bill before the vote.
Then how did it get on the order paper? What were they debating in congress - what they thought was in the Bill? Last time I checked, if a law is considered onerous, or unpopular it can be repealed - that requires mobilizing your elected officials to do it.
The fantasy that rulers are altruistic, wise supermen is most definitely an element of government-worship.
Lovely strawman. Every civics class I ever had emphasized that in a democracy we have to watch what is done with our consent, etc. and that elected officials are subject to a number of checks and balances on their activities - being voted out of office is a big one, carrying out illegal activities can result in criminal charges, etc.
3. We disagree about "worthless". Finally, this argument isn't (or, shouldn't be) about definitions of words but about the effects of different legal/institutional environments on incentives.
Well, yes we definitely disagree on how we define certain words and terms - and your expansion of certain definitions to encompass far more activities than is generally understood makes most of your arguments less compelling than you may think.
Oddly, I'm not seeing anything in that article that supports your assertion that a publicly funded education system prevents parents from making the best choices for their kids - those parents were certainly able to choose to homeschool their children. Oh and look, for afters they've headed off to an acredited university to get those formal qualifications that employers look for.
4. If you follow the chain of definitions, from "slavery" through "property" and onward, you ultimately bump into "control" (i.e., compulsion). Zeks were slaves. Do a word search for "GULAG, slave" and count the hits. It's standard usage.
Funnily, you need to dig deeper than the common definition to get to control when checking the definition of property. I might posit here that if you need to dig down that deep, that you're stretching your definitions.
It may have been a standard usage, but it was incorrect. Given that most references are also from western sources made during the Cold War, there have have been a concious or subconcious decision to use a far more inflammatory term than "forced labourer" when engaging in criticism of the Soviet system.