But this sort of thig really is going to happen.
There are seven billion people on the planet and who knows how many billion interactions there are every day. The utterly improbable is going to happen. It's a nailed on certainty. That's just what happens with extremely large number of random events.
No. Countering this is the presumption of innocence combined with evidence that brings into great doubt that the last child was murdered.
On top of that we have the diary of a woman already feeling guilty and suffering, at a guess, serious post natal depression. I would imagine that almost everyone who has lost children blames themselves.
Why? There's no cause to give you a break. You can take a break by not posting or you can post and have your ideas questioned with no break at all.
What makes you think you deserve a break?
Wow. Utterly ignoring every point I made. The probability of four SIDS cases means nothing?