I value human experience much more than those who make a habit of dismissing it.
If you're inferring that skeptics are dismissing the human experience you couldn't be more wrong. And lord knows you've been very, very wrong about several things. One of the big differences between skeptics and the faithful is skeptics' arguments are objective and honest. Believers' arguments are subjective and dishonest. But as far as the human experience, when viewed objectively and honestly, it is based on reality not delusion.
A lot of ufologists think that eventually we'll get scientific proof, [...]
Those "ufologists"
who shun the notion that "ufology" is in any way a scientific pursuit think that eventually there will be scientific proof of something they simply take as an issue of faith? Now there's an argument from wishful thinking, an act of desperation.
[...] but I think it is just as likely that these craft will stop visiting Earth and those of us who have seen them will pass on, and the whole era will be relegated to myth.
These craft you speak of have never visited the Earth, not to the best of anyone's knowledge who values the human experience objectively and with a grip on reality.
If that happens, our collective experiences are all that future historians will have as a reference.
Sort of like Zeus and Apollo and Poseidon, how we recognize that those who believed in them were buying into some silly superstitions? I've got news for you. People already recognize those who believe in alien visitors as buying into some silly nonsense. People already realize that UFOs and aliens are the stuff of tabloid covers, sci-fi TV shows, and that those who pretend to engage in the study of UFOs are just like ghost hunters and Bigfoot believers. People already recognize that "ufology" is pseudoscience.
So it is important for those of us who have had an experience significant enough to leave us with no doubt, to state our cases for the record.
For the record a lot of religious zealots have seen Jesus on a piece of toast. A lot of hippies who ate some peyote have seen falling leaves turn into butterflies. A lot of people suffering from various brain damage, withdrawing from alcohol addiction, or who ate dangerously spoiled foods have seen visions of things far more interesting than lights zipping around in the sky.
But the current record on UFO aliens comes from a bunch of very uncreative people parroting the same kinds of descriptions, often demonstrably dishonest, and never ever supported with objective evidence. Given what we know about "ufology" and its adherents, it's possible the record on their experiences will be something like, "What a bunch of gullible nutcases those people were, pretending to objectively consider the UFO phenomenon while in reality they were attempting to support their preexisting belief in aliens."
For the record, "ufology" currently fits the definition of pseudoscience to a T. If that record is to change, "ufology" will need to get legitimate, stop dishonestly claiming to be objective, and start to apply the scientific method, the one that actually works to help us understand reality. Or "ufology" will have to go the other way and stop lying about its objectivity altogether and admit that it is simply a matter of belief, of having faith in aliens without any objective support. Even some of the most avid religious nutters are honest enough to acknowledge their faith without evidence.
But as long as "ufologists" screw around in that middle ground, dishonestly wavering from faith to a pretense of objectivity when it's convenient for their purpose, "ufology" will remain smack in the middle of the realms of pseudoscience, regardless of all the whining and complaining its participants do to deny it.