The ones that cause the most problems are often the ones with the harshest discipline at home. They dred the call home more than the 'deiscipline refferal'.
Now arrogant little snot balls from the middle class are another issue. they usually aren't as much of a problem.
My kid knows he has to write an essay for my wife if he acts out. He dreds that.
Funny niether of my kids were ever spanked, yet they self regulate rather well.
It is the consistancy of the parent's boundaries that matters.
Most parents get in trouble because they say one thing and then do another.
warn the child, give them a chance, enforce the consequence works really well.
The main problem is when parents whine, moan and yell but never set a consequence.
let the kids knwo that the TV is an earned priviledge, you don't meet the expectations, you don't get your TV.
It never ceased to amaze me when i was doing assesment, a parent would complain about thier kids behavior, and they had new clothes and a new haicut and new whatever.
I told them, it is just like a job, if your kid meets the expectation they earn the privilege.
Tell them that they have to not swear to earn the TV, if they swear, then they haven't earned it. It goes away that day and the next.
They would get real upset by the idea that thier child might have nothing in their room but a mattress and some clothes.
But hey, if they like to get punched by a child, that was their problem.
Somehow I get rather worried about those people who complain about standards in Education - but can't actually write grammatical English, or English with accurate spelling, themselves. Incidentally, it is usual form for sentences to start with an upper case letter.
Would someone like to go through this post and correct it. I'm not going to, because I want to see the variety of incorrect "corrections".