When I was 32, I found out that my 16 year old stepson from my first marriage was in a relationship with a woman who was my age. I was appalled.
I called my ex. I asked him if this wasn't statutory rape. As shocked as I, he sighed and said, "No. 16 is the legal age of consent for sex in this state. We've already consulted a lawyer, and there's nothing we can do."
Long story short, the two of them married when he turned 18, and have been together ever since. I saw them recently, at myown son's wedding, and they are so happy, and still so much in love 14 years later, it makes me feel pretty silly for having protested it. But then, given his age, it's understandable.
I just wonder if, in other states, she would have been considered a rapist? Y'know, being a woman and all.