Weak anecdotes!
I also said that people recovered in polaces other than 12 step programs. 12 step programs have never said they own the monopoly on recovery and it is the height of ignorance for you to suggest it.
I too have friens such as you mention - some managed to die at the end of a needle or the bottom of a bottle - they didnt have a problem either - some too managed recovery in a variety of forms.
You fail to address the main issue here which for me seems to be a general inability to see reason. You may not have noticed but you stand alone in your beliefs from; those in this forum, mental health experts, other experts in the field, medical experts, psychiatric and phycological experts, world health bodies and english language experts.
What you want is someone to agree with you.
It is impossible to debate if you give nothings except childish stubbornness.
Either put up or shut up.