The ultras still don't understand (or don't want to understand) my position. Here, once again, is my position:
1) If the elected representatives of me and every other citizen of the UK in the UK national parliament feel it is in the best interests of the UK for Scotland to become independent, then it is right and proper that this will happen (assuming, of course, that the majority will of the Scottish people is for independence).
2) The elected representatives of me and every other citizen of the UK in the UK national parliament might well make that assessment on nothing more than the rationale that if the majority of Scottish people want Scotland to become independent of the UK, that in an of itself means that it is in the best interests of the UK to allow Scotland to become independent (cf. Lord Carrington). And if that is the assessment of the UK parliament, then we are democratically encouraged to agree with and abide by that decision - or to vote in different parliamentarians if we don't think they're doing a job that chimes with our best interests.
3) My personal view is certainly that it would not, in raw political, economic and cultural terms, be beneficial to the UK for Scotland to become independent of the UK. Of course, that would have to be balanced against discontent with any majority of Scottish people who wanted independence. But my personal view is of little relevance to my acceptance of the group view. For example, I might, for some reason, have a view that criminals who kill police dogs in the line of duty should be charged with an offence equivalent to the murder of a police officer. But if my parliament does not share my view, then I defer to my national parliament - in a representative democracy, parliament's role is to represent the interests of me and every other UK citizen and to immerse themselves in issues then draft and enact legislation which is, to the best of their abilities, in the best interests of the collective of UK citizens as a whole.
4) Scotland, without a shadow of a doubt, does not have the right in law or international politics to make a unilateral declaration of independence. But (as the ultras constantly fail to understand), this is an entirely different matter from the UK parliament looking at the position in Scotland, noting the desire for independence, and assenting to independence (even somewhat automatically) based on nothing more that the will of the Scottish people should be the prevailing factor here. And, once again, if the UK parliament comes to that conclusion, then that's all well and good by me personally (FWIW).
5) This is not, and never has been, about trying to throw spanners into the spokes of Scottish independence, and nor has it been anything whatsoever about being "anti-Scots" (ironically, in many ways it's quite the opposite). It's about understanding that, absent real, demonstrable oppression of Scotland and its people by the UK authorities (not, note, "the English"....), the binding decision on Scottish independence will be, and should be, made by the UK parliament (again assuming that the majority Scottish will is for independence). And as I say, it's entirely possible - probable even - that the UK parliament will decide that the pragmatic and correct thing to do will be to agree to Scottish independence almost automatically, based on an assessment of the current majority will of the Scottish people. If so, then that's all well and good. That's the job they are elected to do on behalf of me and every other citizen of the UK.