You took that sentence out of the context of my whole post. I basically stated that I had no dog in that fight, and that I would not vote either way- I would leave the decision to those who hold stronger opinions.
I am a believer in Democracy- the most good for the most many. Some of the modern changes seems to benefit the few at the cost to the many. But on this, I don't care- I see no cost to the many.
I do see that some kind of 'domestic partnership' ought to carry legal weight. Why should roomies have to be either hetero or homo to not share legal burden or perks? I'm not concerned with how anybody gets their rocks off, but I can see that long time friends ought to have some kind of legal consideration- without having to resort to adopting each other or getting specific in wills.
Yes, I do believe that men should have the right to a "legal abortion". I ought to be able to go file legally binding papers that state "I choose not to be the father of any pending child". Just as women can go to the doctor and "choose not to be the mother of any pending child". Gay marriages seem to affect 5% (from above), fatherhood affects 50% (+/-). In view of my earlier statement re: greater good for the greater many: which subject is more "democratic" at heart?
Re: my not voting for things I consider inconsequential to me, would you rather I vote at random? Should I choose by an assumed ethnic connection based on surname? sex? occupation? Why pick between Bob Smith or Tom Insunza for dogcatcher, at random? I know nothing of either, not likely to be affected by either, but realize the choice may be important to others. I with-hold the 50% chance of me screwing somebody out of something that is more important to them than it is to me.
You'll decide how to vote by your conscience, I'll decide my way.